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21 Jul 2024, 9:28 pm

People who are intelligent, creative, open-minded, loyal, compassionate, eccentric.


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21 Jul 2024, 10:46 pm

This isn't a personality thing, but I really like it when men are good drivers who can parallel park, back into spaces effortlessly, pull trailers, drive big trucks, etc.

There's something hot about it.

Plus of course being a nice guy and stuff like that. :lol:


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22 Jul 2024, 3:42 pm

I’m very attracted to people who have parental personalities, either authority figures or nurturing types. It’s caused by issues from childhood I suppose.



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22 Jul 2024, 10:13 pm

Hmm.
Someone who's:

Clever (doesn't have to be in the conventional sense)
Stands up for or advocates for others
Treats animals with the utmost care
has a sense of humor (warped is fine)
vulnerable in certain ways and not afraid to show it
not afraid to show emotions
open to discussing philosophy and science :P
patient, trustworthy and dependable
a black sheep
weird yet adorably so
prepared to listen


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22 Jul 2024, 10:16 pm

Raleigh wrote:
a black sheep



HELL YEAH


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23 Jul 2024, 2:50 pm

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
a black sheep



HELL YEAH
I'd rather an invisible sheep or one that's seldom noticed & sometimes forgotten about. In my extended family the black sheep was my cousin who had been a violent bully & involved with criminal stuff including drugs & car theft. I was the the one who did my own thing & wasn't really a major trouble maker.


I'll also add not an intellectual or rather someone who isn't arrogant, not full of themselves, & doesn't make a show about being super smart & how others need to pay attention & give them respect for being a genius :tired:


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23 Jul 2024, 4:52 pm

^ I meant black sheep as in "doesn't follow the crowd", not necessarily violent criminals.
Although a little bit of vice is nice :mrgreen:


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23 Jul 2024, 4:55 pm

Raleigh wrote:
^ I meant black sheep as in "doesn't follow the crowd", not necessarily violent criminals.
Although a little bit of vice is nice :mrgreen:


I knew exactly what you meant. 8)


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23 Jul 2024, 5:23 pm

Raleigh wrote:
Hmm.
Someone who's:

Clever (doesn't have to be in the conventional sense)
Stands up for or advocates for others
Treats animals with the utmost care
has a sense of humor (warped is fine)
vulnerable in certain ways and not afraid to show it
not afraid to show emotions
open to discussing philosophy and science :P
patient, trustworthy and dependable
a black sheep
weird yet adorably so
prepared to listen

That sounds pretty wonderful. Is there a person like that? :)



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23 Jul 2024, 6:04 pm

Raleigh wrote:
a black sheep


Are you from New Zealand or Wales? :mrgreen:


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23 Jul 2024, 6:12 pm

bee33 wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
Hmm.
Someone who's:

Clever (doesn't have to be in the conventional sense)
Stands up for or advocates for others
Treats animals with the utmost care
has a sense of humor (warped is fine)
vulnerable in certain ways and not afraid to show it
not afraid to show emotions
open to discussing philosophy and science :P
patient, trustworthy and dependable
a black sheep
weird yet adorably so
prepared to listen

That sounds pretty wonderful. Is there a person like that? :)



I know two. :heart:


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23 Jul 2024, 6:36 pm

A woman with a great smile will do it for me.

Also, a woman wearing a bright yellow dress will always grab my attention.


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23 Jul 2024, 6:42 pm

kokopelli wrote:

Also, a woman wearing a bright yellow dress will always grab my attention.






https://youtu.be/_8w9rOpV3gc?si=JhOVOk3QwjaBs-3J


Let's share Emma Stone.


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24 Jul 2024, 8:28 am

IsabellaLinton wrote:
Raleigh wrote:
^ I meant black sheep as in "doesn't follow the crowd", not necessarily violent criminals.
Although a little bit of vice is nice :mrgreen:


I knew exactly what you meant. 8)
That makes sense. The term might be used slightly differently where I'm originally from considering the racism there.


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24 Jul 2024, 7:49 pm

Loves animals (especially dogs!)
Plays Music (especially woodwind instruments. Lol. Both people I have fallen for played them)
Is liberal or left
Is nonreligious
Is empathetic and cares about others
Likes space, respects my want for space
Doesn't drink much if at all
Doesn't do drugs


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24 Jul 2024, 8:22 pm

agape-like wisdom.