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IsabellaLinton
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27 Aug 2024, 2:11 am

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27 Aug 2024, 2:46 am

If you want a relationship with an autistic woman, there are many others. She wasn't the only one. And from what you describe she wasn't the right one for you.

And I agree no one wants to be thought of as an opportunity.



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27 Aug 2024, 2:55 am

SCall wrote:
What is a DYFUS case?


I went back and EDITED my earlier post to clarify. I'll post it again:

I was referring to DYFS (pronounced Die-fiss) which stands for Division of Youth and Family Services which is specific to the state of New Jersey, USA. It's simply the government agency that intervenes when a child is in jeopardy or the parents are deemed unfit to raise a child. Thought it was a Federal agency, my apologies. I don't know what the PA equivalent is.

Either way, if neither you nor her were fit to raise a child, the government agency in your jurisdiction may have taken the kid away, so you dodged a bullet of sorts. Sad when these things happen.



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27 Aug 2024, 9:09 am

Jakki wrote:
Hate to be frank about this but , i think you may have just dodged a bullit ....NOT A good thing to marry just to be a ""surrogate father"", Even if the woman is a Aspie.. Even for money, Sorry am alittle old school here, but would like to think love , might be the primary drive for sex or marriage. Just my Opinion. Best Wishes in your future experiences. :D

The problem is I did love her and at one point we both wanted to get married. I didn't have a job at the time. I guess she just got tired of waiting.