How does a woman flirt?

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But they are so often wrong and promote sexism and toxic behavior to varying degrees to boot - all of which could negatively impact one’s chances with women. It makes more sense to talk to women directly about this stuff or engage with reputable, mainstream content.

Here is an article

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/artic ... ne.0229719

I don’t believe in demonizing anyone, but I think it is important to talk about the problems with PUA sites and communities when the topic comes up because I could see how they might appeal to some disenfranchised people, just like how some Incel or far right movements do. Such groups harm both men and women. They also tend to overcomplicate things.

Sorry.

Here is another article

https://www.marriage.com/advice/relatio ... men-flirt/

I wouldn’t try to process it because I don’t think it happens very often.

The vast majority of the time women mean what they say when they say “no,” and their behavior is a good indicator of their level of interest which makes sense from a logical standpoint. There’s typically no hidden agenda when they’re trying to avoid someone. Sticking with that assumption may be especially prudent for people on the spectrum.

According to the author, Rachael Pace, who is a WOMAN, it is "absolutely normal." It sounds like the female version of what PUA's call "negging."

I wonder if there is a female version of pick-up artistry?

I realize that the author is a woman, but the article seems clickblaity and is lacking in evidence and research. It doesn’t even make logical sense. There are lots of reasons why a woman might avoid someone that have nothing to do with flirting. In addition to that, I think it’s important to listen to women and believe what they tell you which would include stuff like taking avoidance behavior and body language seriously. Failing to take women seriously with this stuff due to assuming they aren’t serious (or whatever) happens a lot, and it has a distinctly sexist flavor. Given how often it happens, many women deeply value when people demonstrate respect with this stuff.

I don’t think avoidance/hiding feelings would constitute negging, which is more about insults. With that being said, women engage in the same sh***y behaviors as other humans.

Well, here is a scientific article which claims that we like women with a nice lumbar curvature

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/a ... via%3Dihub

Here is the beginning of Chapter X so far. Did I capture female flirtation procedures? Does Marie seem nice and seductive? Am I appropriately sarcastic?

I think the best way to be more attractive to women is to observe men that are of a similar type of man as yourself that have success with women and learn from that. I think asking women for advice on this is generally a bad idea.

'Giggled seductively' seems an unusual choice of words. I'm not really sure how someone can giggle in a way that is seductive. To me, giggling would imply laughing giddily in a somewhat almost childish and carefree way. I could imagine it could be endearing but...seductive?

The part about the exposed neck would seem more apt if she was trying to flirt with a vampire.

Why the caressing of dishwashing liquid? Leave the kitchen items alone. It could do with some toning down.

I wrote this version because I'm bored:

I giggle quite a lot and usually to myself when I all of a sudden get a joke that I heard about 30 years ago

I hope no one ever gets the wrong impression and thinks I'm lusting after them