Women prefer to poach men who are already in a relationship

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BillyTree
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28 Mar 2025, 5:39 am

TwilightPrincess wrote:

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So, gents: you might improve your chances if you told the ladies that you already have a girlfriend.

Lying to someone you’re interested in dating is a bad idea no matter what her neurotype may be. It’s a manipulative thing to do. It sounds like the sort of toxic BS that would be on PUA site.

These sorts of threads are always very generalizing, too.

Telling women that you are single if you have a partner would be a hurtful lie, the opposite not so much. A midlde way if you don't want to lie is to say that you for the moment is not interested in meeting a woman.

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28 Mar 2025, 6:31 am

BillyTree wrote:

TwilightPrincess wrote:

Honey69 wrote:

So, gents: you might improve your chances if you told the ladies that you already have a girlfriend.

Telling women that you are single if you have a partner would be a hurtful lie, the opposite not so much.

Yeah, it still is a hurtful, manipulative lie. Lying to someone because you think it’ll increase the likelihood that they’ll date you is a sh***y thing to do no matter what the lie is about and no matter which gender is doing it. I’m not sure why one would want to date a person who’s into pursuing folks who are already attached. The chances that they’d treat you with respect is quite slim. All-in-all the theoretical situation sounds toxic on both ends.

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28 Mar 2025, 6:38 am

Married men do wake up the beast in me I'm not gonna lie

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28 Mar 2025, 6:43 am

Ooh goody!
I was lookin' fer one of them "evil uterus" thingummies

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28 Mar 2025, 6:51 am

:lol: it's just a fantasy though innit

I mean most of the married men I see round here are ground down to within an inch of their flipping lives

I feel bad for them more than fancy them

Anyway other than that I have really significant daddy issues so that could have been the reason for my penchant for the older married man when I was younger

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