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Yesterday, 5:00 pm

My daughter is 19 and I wouldn't want her hanging out with 35 year old men Jamesy.

Having said that a 19 yr old normie probably already has a lot of experience with men but as we have said a thousand times they have their pick of 18-30 yr old men so they might not mind hanging out with a 27 yr old but draw the line with you. Don't take it personally Jamesy, it's just a fact of life.



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Yesterday, 5:00 pm

Jamesy wrote:
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Yeah true I guess that is a rare case


With that in mind, don't take it too personally if women in their late teens or early 20s don't reciprocate your interest. There might be ones who would, but they're not that common so you should assume a lack of interest and if you find one who's interested, appreciate that as the rare exception.



Well if you think about it 20-25 vs 35 is only a good 10 year age gap.

Is not that massive of a difference in the grand scheme of things.


I think it depends on the person and everyone you meet will have different boundaries about what they consider appropriate. You're more likely to find 25 year olds who might fancy you than 20 year olds. You're even more likely to find 30 year olds who won't think anything odd about dating a 35 year old.

If you find younger people they might only be interested to fulfil a fetish, rather than actually wish to date you.


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Yesterday, 5:05 pm

Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited



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Yesterday, 5:09 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited


And some of them are already getting divorced and available again. Maybe try to find those ones instead.


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Yesterday, 5:12 pm

Jamesy wrote:
Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited


19 yr old hot women have even more options.



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Yesterday, 5:14 pm

cyberdora wrote:
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Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited


19 yr old hot women have even more options.



Do you think I would have more a chance of dating a 50 year old compared to a 19 year old?



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Yesterday, 5:25 pm

Jamesy wrote:
cyberdora wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
Problem is many 30-35 year old women are settling down and marrying so my dating options are getting more limited


19 yr old hot women have even more options.



Do you think I would have more a chance of dating a 50 year old compared to a 19 year old?


Don't get your hopes up, even "hot" 50 years old have options. You could have a chance with an average/below average 50 year old but that's not the point is it. Why waste the effort. Focus your energy on women your age.



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Yesterday, 5:34 pm

Why you saying average/below average 50 year old woman?