latreefarmer wrote:
Having a nephew with Kanner's, and several of us on the spectrum to one degree or another, I still don't like the idea of being cured. I would like the research to focus on getting inside our heads enough to learn to communicate with those of us with poor or non-existent communication. I think if we could bride that gap with low functioning members, many could get along fine.
I also am in much better spirits now that I am learning about the neurological differences between myself and my peers. Being analytical, the "notknowing" caused a lot of worry and confusion. Now that I know who I am and am learning how my mind works and is different from many, it strangely helps. I would not want to be like many of the people I know who wander aimlessly thru life, always striving to please others.
Education should be the focus, both of us and the general public, not focusing on curing us. As a young adult trying my hand at sales, one of the things I learned is that you must listen to others and let them feel like you care about what they say. Why can't they listen to us and REALLY care about what we say, too? Don't talk TO us, talk with us.
AMEN BROTHER VERY WELL PUT. I COULDN'T HAVE SAID IT BETTER MYSELF!! !!
Sincerely:
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