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18 Dec 2005, 12:58 pm

Okay sean is a paddle good enough for these 2nd 2 friends???


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18 Dec 2005, 2:23 pm

Endersdragon wrote:
Okay sean is a paddle good enough for these 2nd 2 friends???

Probably. :wink:



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18 Dec 2005, 2:42 pm

Sean wrote:
Endersdragon wrote:
Okay sean is a paddle good enough for these 2nd 2 friends???

Probably. :wink:


I second this!



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19 Dec 2005, 3:32 pm

SpaceCase, it sounds like you need some new friends. What the heck do they mean they don't believe you? What? Are they trying to call you a liar?

Oh, and if that had been me, ole' lover boy would've needed a rectal operation to get my foot out his.......


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20 Dec 2005, 4:46 am

Next time you see that absolute b******, perhaps you should damage his jewels. A nice swift hard kick should do it!

Even me, I'm straight, would be horrified at that. That's foul, and completely inappropriate. :x :evil: :x :evil: :x :evil: Our sympathies, SpaceCase. We love you.


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20 Dec 2005, 12:38 pm

Space - if you can avoid this boy at all costs, do so.

He had no right to do what he did.

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20 Dec 2005, 8:08 pm

Yuck. He's the kind of guy I dream of kicking his butt, and the friends sounded like people who can't be trusted to back you up during tough times. He's the kind of guy who makes me want to be a lesbian.


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27 Dec 2005, 10:22 pm

Well, he did something that I think most straight women (if they were into him, but I don't know what kind of guy he was) would have been turned on by (but wouldn't admit to). He was trying tobe daring and courageous, but failed. Or he was just being an arrogant prick. I don't know what I can usefully say about his actions or what judgement I can cast on them, because I don't know how well he knows you or what kind of person he is.


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28 Dec 2005, 4:47 pm

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Isn't there always some kind of ridiculous drama going on in your life? It must be the case that the people you associate with are of questionable character. Disassociate with such people.


That's the best advice available on this topic, but it's oversaturated with the "I'm gonna chop this guy's balls off if I met him" crap.



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15 Jan 2006, 6:01 pm

I was about to say something about the cuteness of it, but that s**t is not okay. That guy would have walked away with at least 3 broken bones if i were in your place.


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21 Jan 2006, 8:52 pm

That guy doesn't have any such right to violate your personal space. I too don't think it would be good to hang around with him because it just sounds like he's mainly interested in your body, not the actual person inside of you. He should of at least asked, so that you wouldn't feel so violated or anything. I seriously don't think that you're dirty or anything like that for him deciding to kiss you in the arcade; it's not like you grabbed him and started kissing him. But yeah, you should stay away from him before he tries anything else; and maybe try telling him that this so called 'relationship' is not going to work out and that you're uncomfortable with him.


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23 Jan 2006, 12:54 am

I believe that you should consider(:to deliberate upon) what he did as "Asalut"..

perhaps it was just due to unskillful means, Aspies are not the only people around with lacking social skills.. especially adolecent boys.

However.. on the other hand you should at least keep a diary(potential court document) and inform your parents of what happened. that will give you credance if he acts out again. these things can escalate.. especially when males violate your "Space" and "Person", touching and especially grabing and the comment about his rude sexuality being able to dominate you and his being able to personally "change" you. believing you think you know the potential of a person can be a serious mistake. i would Never Ever be caught alone with that person again...

i hope it is nothing, and my perspective is from my Juvenile Parole Officer days.

you need to make it very clear he is to keep his hands off you. and to keep his distance.

if he grabs you again you need to immediately call the police... if in the mall the security and the police.. that is assault.



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26 Jan 2006, 4:57 pm

WHERE DOSE THIS BOY LIVE?! i will sort him out for you :twisted:


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