Would You Date a Transsexual?

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Yes of course, although in all honesty I concede there is some confusion for me surrounding personal tastes. I have dated (well slept with) several and have found from my very limited experience the situations are very different and would suggest a lot of discussion about what makes someone comfortable, as I found out on one such encounter it saves a lot of hassle.

Personally there is an ideal or image of femininity physically that I find attractive, I'm not too concerned what demographic you plant yourself.

For the record, I am currently dating a MTF (and a cute female), so I suppose that answer would be 'yes'

I wouldn't date.

Absolutely, I'm bisexual so it makes absolutely no difference to me what a person has in the downstairs department, I don't think I know any MtF people personally, but I know a few FtM people and was in a relationship with one (before they realised they were trans) and almost dated another.
It takes a lot for me to be attracted to someone though, I pretty much always have to know someone as a friend before dating them (demisexual) but other than that, people are people, and people are nice.

Yes.
As long as they've got male stuff down there (so FTM or MTF that doesn't want any surgery), I'm fine.
I'm GQ myself actually (genderfluid)

Sure,

why not. Certainly doesn't change anything about my feelings.

I would date someone who was trans, but probably only an FTM who was passable. I am a man, and I am gay, so the female body does not appeal to me. I like masculine men. But I don't need that person to have a penis, necessarily. There are plenty of toys that can mimic a penis well enough that I don't think I'd miss it. My partner is male, and we use toys quite a lot because they are fun.
I would certainly be happy to be close friends with an MTF trans woman, but it would not be romantic. It would be the same as if she was a biological woman; I don't have an interest in being romantic with them, but I am happy to be friends. I think Buck Angel is sexy because he is so muscular and has a masculine attitude and energy. That is what I am attracted to.
I know at least two internet friends who identify as strait men but who would prefer to date a woman who had a penis. They are attracted to the female physical body, but they also enjoy getting 'pegged.'

I'm sorry if I seem rude but, no, I wouldn't date a transsexual, just thinking of it makes me feel uncomfortable

Which part? The part that understands that she would have been a man in a very, very close parallel world, and that in a closer alternate timeline she would appear to be a regular guy?

absofuckinglutely. for a long time i was relatively uneducated (i live in the south) and i was thinking i was potentially bisexual. or a lesbian. i'm 27 and female. i'm relately androgynous in aesthetic preferences. then, i came to find that i'm pansexual. it's about the person, their mind, and our interactions. it's person to person. that being said, i'm terrible at relationships, or at least starting them. surprise surprise.

I honestly would date someone who identified as female whom was transsexual/transgender.

I for sure would give it a try. Romantically and sexually, I've always felt like an outsider and a "virgin", even though I have had sex before (and liked it!)

I think a non Gender-Binary person would feel the same way, and feel like her/he and I might be able to make it work.

If the Trans person was autistic, I would be even more willing to try.

I would.

It depends on their personality. It doesn't matter to me if they're transgender/transsexual or not, I would still date them if I knew them well enough.