My father is department head of music in a college. To him, classical music is God and everything that's popular is utter crap. When listening to anything of this nature, he is quick to critique it as musically shallow and repetative. I suppose he's right, but he does not listen to music for words. He especially despises rap, and thinks it contributes to the degeneracy of society, or something like that.
He has a sort of reluctant tolerance toward certain Heavy Metal bands, because he knows I listen to them and will play them regardless of whether he wants to hear them or not. If we're on the road and I want to listen to a CD I brought along (and we aren't listening to his choice of classical station, where he will have it up loud and be conducting in the air), he will invariably turn the volume down so it is barely audiable. Should I be playing a CD of music of my choice (whether metal, movie soundtrack, or otherwise) he has no trouble being a dick and turning on the TV in the background so he doesn't have to hear it. When I go upstairs angrily, he's baffled, and feebly explains "I didn't know you didn't want me to put on the TV when you're listening to music". Frankly, I don't know anyone who does.
I don't know if some of his influence has rubbed off on me or not. I feel like a musical idiot compared to him. He forced me to play the trombone in a symphonic band when I was 10 (I reluctantly entered, because of my bitter piano experiences a few years earlier, when he was also being a dick), and I played the trombone all throughout middle school and high school. I don't know if I can say I had any talent or natural inclination. He told me I had a good ear, but hardly so much played as I pantomimed the playing around me. I quit playing an instrument when I went into college, and when I took a music appreciation coarse, I felt like a musical idiot, because I could not identify a single thing while listening to music of any kind. I only knew that I liked some music and not others.
I don't know if my love of metal is connected with my appreciation of classical music. I think to some degree it is, because I dislike most pop music and MTV music. Though the stuff I listen to may also be musically shallow compared to classical, it is far more complex and expressive than the crap I hear on most radios. I have a certain taste for bombast in music; it must be powerful and intense, or moody, emotional, and atmospheric in some way. I can appreciate the light-hearted nature of certain songs of other, more popular genres, but mostly for their lyrics.
I like Beethoven, Mozart, Bach, Holst, and (obviously) some symphonic marching band music, but I listen to them infrequently.
My current ten favorite bands include Blind Guardian, Iced Earth, Iron Maiden, Helloween, Nile, Opeth, Death, Dimmu Borgir, Finntroll, and White Skull.
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"And lo, the beast looked upon the face of beauty. And beauty stayed his hand. And from that day on, he was as one dead."