Some people would like to be disabled because of the GOP stereotype about disabled people getting free money & other benefits due to being too lazy to work. Those people don't comprehend how difficult life can be due to being disabled.
Some people think autistics get a free pass to be inconsiderate jerks. I seen this some in L&D section in the past where a woman posts about being in an abusive relationship & she's diagnosing the guy as autistic because she's trying to make excuses to justify his a$$holish behavior, when in reality the guy probably isn't even autistic or his autism is not the real problem. Some guys might hear the woman's story outside the forum(like they're friends or work colleges) & take the woman at her word about her guy being autistic. Those guys might then think that if they were autistic women would be more sympathetic to them.
IsabellaLinton wrote:
Quirky as in being particular, or even picky, yes.
Quirky as in being an adult who acts like a child or an animal and is adorably cute, not necessarily.
(Nothing wrong with acting like a child or an animal, I suppose, but it's not specific to autism.)
It's mostly a stereotype autistic women face, like we're supposed to be lap dogs or something.
I can see why people might find eccentricities cute; after all, kids tend to be uninhibited and being uninhibited enough to display eccentricities instead of masking them seems like where the connection is made.
But I've never understood why people would assume someone who's cute would also be docile. Even if the person is a complete (wo)man-child, kids can be brats and childish adults often have pretty bratty tendencies.
It's probably one women face more, but it seems to be a sub-type of a broader stereotype; people who are viewed as dorky tend to also be viewed as docile pushovers.
It's like on some level the assumption is
dorky/quirky = childish = well-behaved childish.
You described my girlfriend. I usually find her extremely cute
I fit that description a bit as well thou not as much as her & she finds me extremely cute too. I'm probably very attracted to that because it's more relatable to me & matches well with my relationship personality.