would you let your autistic son die a virgin?

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What I would tell him is to steer clear of toxic masculinity.

Luck of the draw. Just because there's compatible people out there doesn't mean you'll meet them, and even if you do sometimes one doesn't navigate their initial interactions properly. If someone doesn't interact with enough people they might miss the chance to meet that person.

There's a bunch of factors that can reduce your chances of meeting and hitting it off with someone compatible, but, that doesn't mean there weren't potential partners out there.

I mean, in my own personal experience, and as cliche as it sounds, you just need to have a decent personality, some determination, and a little game.

You don't need a to have a car. You don't need to have a job. You don't need to have a house. Just make sure your butt is washed, you don't have any broccoli in your teeth, and try to show a genuine interest in what the other person has to say. Like, actually take the time to get to know them.

There's absolutely no shortage of hoes out there, male or female. If the first twenty of them turn you down, try another twenty. Even another twenty after that. Don't just give up. But don't go into it trying to get laid, nobody wants to feel like they are being used. Go into trying to make a new friend and see what happens from there. Pace yourself. There is no rush.

Again, just personal experience, but a lot of guys I've known who were virgins into their late 20s wanted to blame everyone except themselves. Huge pity parties. Like, bro, you're 260+ lbs, 5'7", and almost 30, stop trying to hit on the 18-year-old, 5'2" 90 lb Hooters waitress. Be reasonable. Stay in your lane. You'd literally crush her to death.

Or, my guy, please, let the woman speak. Nobody wants to hear you go on about fantasy football for an hour. Maybe take some of that paycheque and offer to take her out to eat instead of buying yet another band shirt and more Pokemon cards. Read a book, read a magazine, have something actually interesting to say.