babybird wrote:
Yeah it's true that
I always think that changing a person into what you want them to be is tantamount to killing them
I think it depends on what exactly you're trying to change.
If you're trying to change them into someone who doesn't wipe boogers on the couch cushions, that's probably reasonable.
If you're trying to change them into an extreme extrovert, that might be more like what you're describing.
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