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20 Apr 2011, 8:00 pm

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i'm bisexual and not confused.

That's great! We're happy for you.

I'm bisexual too, but waiting for my sister to come out as bisexual,
she is in denial and in the closet. My mother is also a closeted bisexual.

thank you! that must be a little tense and awkward for them to be in the closet. my family is aware that i am bisexual, i think.

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21 Apr 2011, 3:03 pm

^^
When did you come out as bisexual?

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21 Apr 2011, 3:30 pm

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When did you come out as bisexual?

i don't think it was ever a secret, but i talked to my daughter about it a couple of years ago so that if she turned out to have feelings like that it wouldn't be too hard for her to be honest with herself about it (basically trying to tell her so that she understands it can be normal). i've talked to my sisters too - one of them was a lesbian and now switched teams again, so it's not a big deal.

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25 Apr 2011, 6:58 pm

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Being bi means that you are not sure what one you like more weather it be guys or girls .
So youd have to be lezz or stright to not be comfused from what it looks like to me no affence just exsplaneing to you you kind of still are looking for what one you truely are lezz or stright.
Because bis comfused (there not sure) there still trying to find out themselfs.
As for me im lezz im sure of this because ive been threw avreything and i know now. but when i was bi and wasnt sure that kind of sucked took very long to find myself out.

just came here to say i hope you find the one your attracted to and dont become comfused and dont take any crap from rude people out there!! !

Um, being bi doesn't mean you are confused. Just because you happen to be lesbian does not mean I have to be either homosexual or heterosexual. You may wish to research the term "false dichotomy"

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25 Apr 2011, 7:01 pm

Bi is likeing guys and girls. so yeah it would be comfused. because they know they like both but there not sure what one they like more. im lezz i used to be bi for exsapmle.

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25 Apr 2011, 7:13 pm

kc8ufv wrote:

XsamX wrote:

just came here to say i hope you find the one your attracted to and dont become comfused and dont take any crap from rude people out there!! !

Um, being bi doesn't mean you are confused. Just because you happen to be lesbian does not mean I have to be either homosexual or heterosexual. You may wish to research the term "false dichotomy"

Some poeple know they just dont admit for exsample.
so they know who they like but dont want to say it. so under it all they are gey or lezz. and some still are comfused about what one they love so they go by the name bi.
I dont need to look it up because this is really what it means. sometimes online dosent exspalen avreything. im not trying to be mean to you im only saying

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27 Apr 2011, 5:27 pm

All right, no longer slightly confused.

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08 May 2011, 6:14 am

I meet half the requirements: I'm bisexual but very confused.

My family, friends and everyone I know are heterosexual and they wouldn't like it if they knew I was bi. Actually, my family do know, and they don't like it at all. So I try to hide and resist it. I've only had sexual experiences with guys but I know I like girls too. I want to experiment with girls, but I don't want to be bi in the first place if that makes sense.

Stupid complicated world. :cry:

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13 May 2011, 7:01 pm

Why don't you want to be bi in the first place? Just because of social constraints?

If so understood. But just to let you know that I think the fact you or anybody is bi is "pretty cool", as the fake Miley Cyrus would say on the Miley Cyrus Show on SNL. If you don't watch it never mind, I should probably make more well-known references.

Hopefully your family will come around. If not, just keep being you. Come to think of it my own family don't know for me, so you're already more courageous than me.

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22 May 2011, 6:51 pm

i talked a bit with my daughter today, and found out that i didn't ever make a formal pronouncement to her that i am bisexual! she said that she assumed it is true from stuff i have said and my general attitude, but i didn't really ever say anything specific about it. so we talked today, and she thinks it is pretty cool (she is 16).

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14 Jun 2011, 7:07 pm

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Sorry for taking forever to reply. I haven't been online much recently.

Yeah I don't want to be because of social constraints. Even in this day and age it's looked down on. I don't want to upset my family either. My mother clearly dislikes that sort of thing and tells me not to say things like that if I bring up my sexuality. She's not homophobic but she doesn't think being attracted to people of the same gender is normal, so she wants her own kids to be straight. She sort of scowls at me if I show any sign of being interested in girls. So I think it's best for everyone involved if I just stay in the closet.

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14 Jun 2011, 10:42 pm

Add me to the list of unconfused bisexuals. Although I'm in a committed long-term straight relationship, I've definitely come to appreciate the male form more as I've gotten older. Probably close to 50-percent straight, 50-percent gay these days in terms of desires. Mostly in the closet, but not in denial.

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19 Jun 2011, 1:13 pm

I used to be a little confused back when I was aged 11-14, but I think that was immaturity mixed with developing into an adolescent. Sometimes children of that age can become a little confused, but they outgrow it very quickly. I did too. By age 15 I knew I was no bisexual nor homosexual. I quickly developed feelings for the opposite sex, and I still do now.

When I was a child under the age of 11, I never even knew about love. I never fancied one boy, and I even remember asking my mum what ''asking someone out'' means. I suppose it ain't that embarrassing if I was just a small child.

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20 Jun 2011, 7:22 am

dont forget meeeeeeeee. Most people are confused about how I explain my sexuality but here goes
I feel emotionally half male and half female....and I think a person's personality is more important factor in me being attracted to them than gender.
btw...I am not confused

and neither am I a fence rider like many gay folks have said to me.

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20 Jun 2011, 7:34 am

I know with certainty that I feel attraction to many women, and a few men. I still feel confused by people.

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20 Jun 2011, 5:53 pm

Taupey wrote:

I usually feel free in a way with a woman that I don't feel when I'm with a man. But I like men and I can be attracted and have relationships with them just as easily.

Same for me, except swap the gender words. I'd feel more comfortable with a male, but maybe that's just my social anxiety.

I'm bisexual/pansexual and not confused, and although I've never been in a relationship with a male, I'm positive I'm open to one. That being said, I am 100% "monoamorous", and would expect the same of my girlfriend/boyfriend.

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