Still stuck in a private school at 21

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I found this information about conservatorships in Connecticut (I'm assuming you live there since you said you live in "CT" but did not clarify if it was in the USA).

You will have to do some work to prove that you can live on your own without the support of your conservators. Let us know if we can help with anything. Good luck, and I hope things get better for you.

Connecticut Conservatorships

oh.. man attachment issues....this sounds like it could be difficult to grow beyond those issues..i do not envy you .
trying to overcome those type issues can be most difficult ..when trying to grow on your own ....hang in there .!
my heart goes out to you .! ..
It is a friggin complex world ..am hoping the best for you .. regardless of what happens

These are the important people we need to watch for their progress, is Our progress....the things that happen to the least of us....are the exact things that can happen to the best of us ,,IMHO.
Be patient with your conservator / parents.. until you feel secure emough to strive .To be on your own.. or find a supportive enough environment to help you support,your own situation as you progress in life....
Each of us deals with our own realities as we grow ...perhaps.......
if you have come to an age of adulthood , regardless of attachment issues,you may need to prepare to handle all your own life situations big or little......just a FYI incase you move forward to being on your own .

Huh. What if you get expelled?

You're old enough, go buy a beer, drink it on premises, maybe hand it to someone else. Bam, harmless, yet gone.

They are going to take away my forums and make me use sesamestreet .org now... I'm so f*****g sick of the infantilizing. I'm 21 f*****g years old.

1. Stereotypically, women drink wine and champagne, not beer

2. I can't drink, I'm not allowed to.

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Women drink whatever the hell they'd like, including beer.

r00tb33r understands you're not allowed to drink, that's part of his plan.
He's asking if it's enough to get you expelled so you're no longer stuck in the abusive school.

I guess it's just the American men are beer drinkers stereotype

Regardless, I can't because I'm forced to be put on meds to prevent me from going insane

I can't because I would get in huge trouble and idk what to do, like I can't bring a flamethrower or something (NOT saying I will, but don't people get expelled for bringing weapons or attacking people or something?)

Ah, I'm supposed to take meds that warn about mixing with alcohol. Thankfully they aren't like Tylenol and alcohol (which can kill you). The main concern is that their depressant effects might multiply.

But, maybe a better version of r00b33r's question would be, is there anything you can do that would lead to being expelled but not face criminal charges?

Making hooch. Gets kicked out and don't even need to drink it hopefully.

Alternatively, just become a bully and harass staff members.

The expelling idea is actually compelling, fun and possibly a very effective plan if it'll work.

In her position, I would intentionally be thoroughly obnoxious and a nightmare to deal with.

Oh that is such a good shout

Why didn't I think of that

Is this some sort of group home or institution disguising itself as a private boarding school for special needs individuals. Do your parents or other family member have guardianship or conservatorship of you?

I'm still stuck here and as you can tell by the recent posts the students who are the only ones who like my fandoms are still name calling me...

the staff won't let me get the therapy I need...

Hi, I hope u can get therapy that u need. I was in school till i was 22 myself and repeated a lot. I like G4 MLP (hence my profile picture )