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The_Face_of_Boo
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22 Sep 2024, 10:48 am

DuckHairback wrote:
As for beards, I'm not so sure. Yes, it's a choice to have one and that speaks to someone's personality but you could say the same thing about the decision to have, for example, breast enlargements.


And weight and body shape (though often not as easy).



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22 Sep 2024, 2:40 pm

DuckHairback wrote:


As for beards, I'm not so sure. Yes, it's a choice to have one and that speaks to someone's personality but you could say the same thing about the decision to have, for example, breast enlargements.
That was just an offhanded remark on my part because I wanted to talk about beards, since my bf has a nice beard. :) Not to be taken too seriously.



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29 Sep 2024, 4:56 am

Looks will always be first for me. But once the physical is passed, I like women who are like the feminine tomboy sorta. Forward, but not overbearing, and someone who values work and money.



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06 Oct 2024, 9:02 pm

A personality like Philomena Cunk.


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06 Oct 2024, 9:22 pm

Is a woman's aura physical?



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06 Oct 2024, 9:41 pm

Kind, empathetic, open-minded, humble, intelligent, relaxed energy, treats all others regardless of age with respect, and treats children as an equal.

Turn off's are laziness, rudeness, arrogance, selfishness and people who are abusive to children and animals.



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03 Nov 2024, 8:14 pm

That’s a an uplifting thread idea thanks man
I can’t answer because I’m not very experienced and I also think I’m adaptable so I can like a number of opposite traits in different men.



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04 Nov 2024, 1:47 am

Someone who can engage me mentally. A meeting of the minds is just as important as physical attraction.
Kindness and sensitivity. Also, musicians. I am very attracted to someone who can master an instrument.



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04 Nov 2024, 2:11 am

Integrity
Someone who refrains from gossip, personal attacks
Is horrified by people who kill animals for "sport"
Considerate to people of all ages
Is not narcissistic
Doesn't exploit others for personal gain
Has a lovely smile
Has a beautiful speaking voice
Intelligent
Kind and without malice