People who actually DESERVED to be bullied?

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Maybe if they bully me I would go tell someone.

The OP reminded me of this Simposons quote;

Marge: Nelson's a troubled, lonely, sad little boy. He needs to be isolated from everyone.

i think no one deserves to be bullied
even people who are bullies

Hmm, let's see here...Does anyone deserve to be abused physically or verbally, socially excluded and ostracized, with potential psychological traumatization, destroyed self-esteem, and depression or anxiety as a concequence? Oh boy, this is a tricky one!

If theres one type of people that deserve to be bullied that is FAT blokes. I cant stand them.

The people from your description sound like jerks. Jerks are annoying, but they are still people in life. Deal with it. I was bullied severely for three years. Most of it was by or led by one person. I know it's not right, but part of me still wants to make him suffer.

Women serial killers deserve to be bullied and tortured. Women who kill their children deserve to be bullied.

There's a different between bullying and discouraging behavior.

Discouraging behavior is - "Ew," in response to a gross comment, or telling the teacher it makes you uncomfortable.

Bullying is taking it to a whole new level and keeping it there no matter what the consequences may be.

Ex.

It is discouraging behavior when you tell someone to stop being a dick. It is bullying when you harass the person in retaliation.

I think nobody deserves to be bullied. If we bullied bullies, they (and viewers) would start to consider it normal behavior, or try to take revenge on others by teasing them. I know a few examples of that kind of behavior.

Thank you for your kind words. I posted that here in the adolescent forum in hopes that nobody has to go through what I experienced and to realize there is light at the end of the tunnel. Being a teenager is tough and as an Aspie it's by far the worst part of your life. It took a long time to recover, but my life is in great shape right now and people respect me for my experience. In fact, if you were to meet me now you would assume *I* was the bully back in the day.

To be honest it wasn't the (many) physical assaults that haunted me. I was bruised from head to toe but that only lasted a few weeks. It was the exclusion (like being forced to sit on the floor on the bus) and constant name calling, particular the malicious rumours spread about me like being gay (back then being gay was a MUCH bigger deal than it is today) and the fact nearly everyone was taking shots at me, even my 'friends'. I quickly learned how at that age people are more concerned about social status within a group of thugs than doing the right thing and I was incredibly naive back then but I couldn't help that my development was behind in addition to being 1.5 years younger than everyone in my class. That's not even mentioning how hurtful it is to be constantly invalidated: after all, how could a 6'4" 13 year old boy be bullied (emotionally, not physically) by the entire class, even girls? He must be delusional! If I remember correctly, they just assumed I was covering for my parents abusing me and simply couldn't fathom how kids, including nerdy, honor rolls ones could be so violent and vicious.

When you are told daily by almost everyone in your class that they would like nothing more than for you to drop dead to a round of cheers, it has a BIG effect on you. Unless you have experienced it firsthand, you have NO IDEA how painful it is. It's like being bullied by 10 heavily armed sociopaths who are police or military: you have an overwhelming desire to fight back but know all you can do is take it because they have no hesitation to put a gun to your head and nobody will stop them. That's why I laugh at people who say I should have fought back. How? After a while, you start to believe those things because you rationalize if everything says it they are probably telling the truth.

I would be lying if I said it wouldn't bring a smile to my face to see my bullies suffer horribly but at the same time I have no desire to cause them any harm and have moved on. As I said this is much more difficult than it sounds but you can do it. I offer my experience and support to anyone who wants to send me a PM and remind you that if you are being bullied or harassed, even by a large group, it's THEIR fault, not yours! These cowards will soon learn that doing that in a University or a workplace will mean removal if they are lucky and possible arrests and restraining orders.

I'm not quite sure if I want to make a comment, as everyone who comments and the author of this post disagrees with gets a response. And I don't want to go down the whole reply-and-politely-bitch avenue. Just sayin'.
But people don't deserve to be bullied. Full stop.

I think nobody deserves to be bullied, just broken down until they admit they need help through concrete evidence. My mentor did that to me and he salvaged me from a wasted life.

Bullying just breaks a person. I still bear the scars.

Also worth noting: I tried to be the force of karma recently....doesn't work well. Just ended up being a jackass that encouraged the idiot behavior by reacting to it.