i was diagnosed as simply "autistic" when i was about 3 years old.
the diagnosticians said simply that i was "mildly autistic", in that i exhibited many autistic traits, but i did not seem to be mentally impaired.
as a baby and child, i was unaffected by people grimacing at me or trying to catch my attention or involve me in any way with their attempted communication.
i did not cry to be picked up.
i did not feel lonely for company and start wailing for attention when left alone in my cot.
i wailed when i wanted something, but beyond that i did not care for affection or communication.
my sisters said they pulled goofy faces at me and tried to catch my attention to entertain me when i was a baby and toddler, and i paid no attention to them.
when people smiled at me i remained devoid of expression.
my parents became worried that there was something wrong with me and referred me for medical evaluation, which resulted in a diagnosis of "mild autism".
when i was 11, my behavior was too difficult for conventional schools to control, and i was referred to special psychiatric units for children and adolescents and i spent most of my school life in that environment.
my psychiatrist was marie bashir (who later became the governer of NSW (just a name dropping thing there)) and i was fascinated with her and she was likewise fascinated by me.
we developed a special relationship and i spent hours in sessions with her describing to her my answers to the questions she asked.
she was researching "autism" as well as providing therapy in those days (1983), and she once told me that she wanted me to participate in a study into a"different classification of autism".
she was working with lorna wing (by correspondence obviously) i believe gathering data for the eventual arrival at the diagnostic inclusion of "asperger's autism" into the dsm 2 or whatever it was at the time.
i had many interviews with her in the presence of university students (no more than 3 at a time).
so at that time, i believe it was believed by them that i would fit this new criteria, but i grew up and left before it was included in the dsm eventually in 1994.
in 1996 when i was 24 years old, i was in trouble for my 3rd drink driving charge and my lawyer wanted to find out more about my psychiatric history for my defense, and i was sent, together with the notes gathered by marie bashir, and my siblings and parents to an analyst who diagnosed me with the now valid "asperger syndrome" diagnosis.