FleaOfTheChill wrote:
I've been married twice. First time, I was seventeen and got married because of a pregnancy... the ex and I decided to try to be responsible for our actions and do right by our child. That marriage lasted six years and it got abusive towards the end. It was time to go. Second marriage lasted over 15 years and ended when they got back into drug use.
I've also had some long term partners. I am poly, and I had one girlfriend for about ten years during my second marriage... though there were plenty of times during that span when she and I were only friends. When I get to questioning if I have it in me to love a romantic partner, I think back on her. I loved that woman. Probably still do. Her drug use was why I had to walk away. She got hooked on pain pills and it spiraled out of control in ways I couldn't handle.
Have known a younger married couple . with 2 very pretty young girls , by the time both the children were 4 and 5 years old .Both parents , those peoples problems with pain killers got so bad they , as a couple tried to rob a local
pharmacy . Both have been in Federal prison since then over 4 years now,to date . but that pair of parents were products of a very corrupt minded Grandmother, living a few doors down from me. Whose home did after all create several generations of criminals .With her direct support. Drugs will destroy relationships .
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