Am I mad? I really hate having breasts

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As a MtF. I can say I was completely nieve on just how much I would come to be annoyed by the fact the boobs get in the way.. How much they hurt And in my. Profession they can and have been an issue with fitment to areas to work in on my job. I'm happy they make me look some what feminine. But. They didn't need to be 36C/D sized. Or as sensitive as they have become If I go a day without descent support. It's nearly unbearable and exercise a good sports bra is a mandate. That was not at all expected given we Trans girls don't get the size I've gotten in my transition. I now can say. I know why cis girls b***h

Breasts should be like stackable hats. Then I could leave them on my dresser when I don't feel like dealing with them, or stack them all on one side when I'm in a strange mood.

I dunno. I'm 36DD now (from the contraceptive pill) and I find the benefits outweigh the drawbacks. I'm not someone who gets their cleavage out, either. I just think they're beautiful and enjoy them as part of sex too much to resent having to wear underwire bras all the time. I think if they were Gs though, that would be a problem because then the pain would start to outweigh the aesthetic and sexual benefits.

I've been small-breasted most of my life and I've only started having moderately large ones in the last few years (I'm overweight though, so they don't look that big on my body, my belly and thighs are the most noticeable things on my body.) I've never minded so much about having a female body, but about having my female body and thinking it wasn't as attractive as others. Like my boobs weren't that good and my thighs weren't that good (I have HUGE thighs.) I should've known better because people have found me attractive for more than just my personality (which is what I thought was the only thing they liked about me.) I just had this body dysmorphia where other women's boobs seemed sexy to me and mine didn't for some reason (I think bullying caused that.) I used to think I might as well have been born male since I couldn't see what was sexy about my particular female features. But now I've been able to see myself more how my lovers have seen me, so I can see how my body is sexy to some of the people who like female bodies (and I do, but not my own for most of my life.)

Most of the things I hate about being female (and there are quite a lot of them) are social rather than biological.

I can relate to most of this. RE bolded sections. You're right about the first one. The second one is the only part I don't relate to. My biology has give me a lot of trouble. Particularly ovulation.

^ Puberty was quite traumatic, but now things have settled down, I find hormonal contraception takes care of most things. I don't get the negative side-effects apart from increased appetite. So I have a way of dealing with the biological stuff that works for me right now. I'll probably be cursing my biology if I ever try to get pregnant. I know I'll be cursing it when menopause hits.

I don't enjoy acting like a woman is 'supposed' to act and I don't like the way relations between the sexes are in society. The latter one irks me very frequently.

My body doesn't react well to my own hormones, let alone the fake ones. I don't want to get pregnant, I fear it so much I had a nightmare about waking up to discover I'd given birth a few days ago. I don't need my reproductive organs, I don't need a menstral cycle. It's misery. I thinkmy feelings on this are similar to the OP's feelings about her breasts.

My own hormones are slightly androgen-heavy for a woman. Not a bad thing, really, just different. Fake hormones have just eliminated the menstrual problems I used to have and made my boobs bigger. I was worried that they'd mess up my natural gender identity, but they didn't, I still feel and think the same but I just look a bit more feminine and don't have a week of hell every month.

I don't think I've ever had my levels tested, but I doubt they'd be abnormal. I think it's my sensitivity to them that is the problem. At least I'm not alone. My mother and aunts have similar issues. It still sucks, tho.

I was a late developer. I would have been devastated if I'd have got boobs when I was a teenager because my brain was in boy mode.

38A and I am fine with it, I did get way too much attention when younger as I was more of a 38B but I have actually lost weight and now I get less from men and I am pleased at plus it makes the comfort a lot more AND unlike pretty much everyone I know I don't have to wear a bra which I am loving.

Wish mine were smaller. Gravity has not been kind and in hot weather it gets sweaty under there and can then get a rash if I am not careful. Plus I have a hard time finding cute bras without under wire.

I thought I was alone!

Mine are a size 34D and I loath them, I want to cut them off. Everytime I put on a bra it's so uncomfortable I want to cry but if I don't wear one it's obvious and still uncomfortable.

My body is female but I don't emotionally relate to either gender. It's like I grew these terrible hypersensitive lumps on my already hypersensitive body. D:< argh.

Also, anyone touching them is out of the question, it's too uncomfortable.

I wear a size DD and hate it. Just today my mum was helping me pick out some new clothes, and we found a very cute dress in my size, but I went to try it on and it took me a while to pull it over my chest. I'm uncomfortable with having secondary sexual characteristics in general... I love cute clothes, but I associate feminine figures with being sexual, something I'm uncomfortable with.

I am a cup size E, and I hate it. I´m 60 and I haven´t got used to it. The discomfort is enormous. Never liked being a woman.

I was an a-cup forever, but have finally "filled out" in the past couple of years. I am a 32D which really is not large at all, just not small for my petite frame. Anyway, I just hate it. "Get in the way" is spot on. Also it is so annoying buying clothes. Now I am too big for boys/juniors, so my choices are a bunch of low-cut, cleavage bearing crap that I would never be comfortable in, shirts that are just large all over and make me look dumpy, or granny clothes (no offense intended to the grannies out there. Its just a little soon for me)

I have thought about trying those binder things that transsexuals use to start passing as male, but that would probably be even more uncomfortable

I love having breasts and the feeling of a warm suckling mouth on my nipples.