Figured out why I'm attracted to...

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...redheads. As they tend to be more sexually aggressive, it makes up for my inability to read nonverbal cues of when to try something.

Cool.

I tend to like blondes and girls with very dark hair.

I tend to prefer brunettes as far as looks go, but I get along better with blondes, because the ones I have met, were a little quirky, and less serious.

Well shoot, I'm going to pile on then as well with my likes.

What I like -- really pale, willowy Asian women, preferably of Chinese descent. Half Chinese, half Japanese descent, even better! Also like Korean (if not too thick or big-boned) and some Vietnamese/Filipina.

Why I like them -- Asian women have this very feminine look, high cheekbones, low body fat, not a lot of body hair, beautiful black, shiny hair, gorgeous narrow eyes (it's the eyes that do it for me), pale skin. I really love the typical Chinese ethnic look, especially from the coastal areas of China (Fujian province, etc.). Cantonese women are good too (like from Guangdong, Hong Kong, pre-20th century Chinese immigrants to the U.S., or Chinese-Vietnamese), but I really love the Mandarin Chinese women. Born here or there, don't really care, but I like the genes and the look. I even love their smell (all people have a smell, and racial background definitely contributes) -- I love holding an Asian woman close, smelling her hair and scalp.

I'm find with tall or short -- no Asian woman will be taller than me. I don't expect them to be demure (this is an unfounded stereotype), but I do like them to be sexually active and motivated.

Not into Japanese very much (except the hybrid with Chinese) -- just not my thing.

Lucky for me, women from the background I like seem to have a mutual fetish for my type -- tall and blond (and white). Everyone I dated before my wife (who is Latina) was Asian and had some Chinese ancestry.

The Japanese-Chinese hybrid was still my favorite, and the big tragedy in my life that we couldn't make it work due to timing and other people in our lives. I used to dream about that girl for years

I seem to be into redheads - definitely around that area of colour - as my previous two crushes have been with redheads, and the last girlfriend i had was redheaded as well.


P.S: I just want to make sure, ginger is covered under redhead isn't it? I always get terms such as that mixed up.

It's weird but I don't seem to have any preference for appearance at all (the guys I've been attracted to have been extremely diverse in that area), but I do have strong preference for intelligence; the smarter the better.

I'm attracted to guys....ummm.....not sure what type.....

Interesting.

I've never had a specific type of guy that I'm into physically. I do have a thing with shoulders, not sure why, but I like broad shoulders. It's something I notice right away.

It's more about the brainbox for me. If he can figure me out and he's smart then that rocks. The guys I've dated have been pretty diverse. I like the smart ones.

Red hair can be very attractive but for me it has to be a particular shade: a kind of orangy copper colour where the actual red is easily identifyable. It's sort of like this: http://static.bigstockphoto.com/thumbs/5/9/4/large/495669.jpg Oh, and 'red/aubern/ginger' are all interchangable when it comes to hair. You'ld think there would be a difference! I'm never sure what to call it if it is dyed tomato red.