Page 1 of 1 [ 3 posts ] 

Josie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Apr 2008
Age: 42
Gender: Female
Posts: 607

11 Sep 2009, 7:01 pm

I upsetted one of NT my friend due to one of my novel txt since I can't sum what I need to say and also say what's on my mind. I've tried to say sorry twice so far and I really meant it and she is still being mean to me! I've also said hi to her a couple of times.
I told her I felt really bad. She's under a lot of stress- crying a lot because she is moving away to help her son's family and her son is in the war- and she has to leave everything behind. Emotionally I can't cope with it because I can really feel it and I have also cried today. I don't have any personal problems now. I dont often cant get this close to people and let myself get attached. This is why.
What should I do? I haven't spoke of this to anyone else! I dont think I deserved to be treated this way since I have helped her a lot. I dont understand. She's been this way before- not just to me.



hj
Tufted Titmouse
Tufted Titmouse

User avatar

Joined: 9 Sep 2009
Age: 34
Gender: Female
Posts: 25

13 Sep 2009, 3:58 pm

may be just give her sum time to think things through i had this problem a few time before not exactly but simular ! she might calm down wen she feeling less stressed and worried herself she probly not meaning things to be affecting u this bad u said sorry there not much more u can do just be nice and dont giv up but let her think for a few days or sumthing like that ! i hope its sorta help full ! sorry if it not xXx



Josie
Veteran
Veteran

User avatar

Joined: 25 Apr 2008
Age: 42
Gender: Female
Posts: 607

14 Sep 2009, 4:30 pm

Yes it thanks. People are cruel for no reason.

I'm waiting for a sorry- she has said things about other people that werent nic to my face. I have heard that if they do they are most likely to treat a friend that way.