The only thing I saw that caused me to do a double take was your message:
(11:46:16 AM) queequeg: i'd say rape is a problem with the oppposite sex
(11:46:28 AM) kmg90: well not for us aspies
I think I understand what you might have been trying to say (that Aspies tend to be non-violent?). But I can see that someone might misinterpret this.
That being said, on other webgroups where I have been a moderator, it has always been my practice to accompany a revocation of posting privileges with an explanation.
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--James