I was... well, I guess I would have been 27 when my psychologist started looking into it. I don't remember if it was before or after my birthday when he finally just said that is what it is basically.
I had a very positive reaction for the most part, as 27 years is a long time of going without knowing why you are the way you are, and having people yelling at you to "snap out of it"... trying your hardest to do so, lol, and getting frustrated that you can't.
The only downfalls I have really... granted my life in general is pretty frustrating from one thing to the next, but the real downfall I have at times is trying to communicate with my boyfriend at times and be at ease most of the time with him, as well as him being okay with that. He is okay with it, but as I cannot stop the nervousness/anxiety, he can't help but to feel bad at times... and the realization that it will always be that way can be depressing at times, and the idea of working on things to try to make it better is quite overwhelming at times, too.
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Sorry about the incredibly long post...
"I enjoyed the meetings, too. It was like having friends." -Luna Lovegood