I hate my life

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I'm so sick of living, I'm tired of being alone and being around I just don't like. I've alienated myself from women in the Uni because I just can't seem to attract anyone. I'm sick of seeing couples around me being happy and sick of people mocking. I'm tired, I can't attract anyone. I'm sick of being told to wait for someone to come along. I've yet to see any sign that stupid bloody advice to work. I'm tired of this. I just want to die.

I don't mean this to sound rude, but this post should be in The Haven. It's more related to depression, than dating, so it would do better in that sub-forum. Just trying to help


If you had a question, or was asking for advice on dating, that would be helpful if you're looking for responses, in L & D.

Is there any advice other than wait for the right one to come long bull&()( that can help change this situation, lets assume that I know little to no information or etc to would allow me to find someone. Anything like where to go? Please no clubs or bars, I fu*())8 hate those places, it attracts the kinds of women that I think are real dip((()s boring people that like to party all the fuc*()* time. Nah I get bored with that. Also how can I recognise attraction from the opposite sex thats another question. Those are the sort things I would like answered.

I noticed you've started a couple of previous threads on this topic. It looked to me like people gave you a lot of good feedback.

The last one gave me the same old BS I get from my immediate family. The one haven is well I suppose has better advice. This one............................................. is all I can say. I would like some answer besides those classic horses**t lines. When ones only problem with the world is the lack of companionship then obviously having the blasted problem solved would lead to some happiness. I would gladly take all the suppose s**t that comes with a relationship with large pleasant smile on my face because for once in my life I have filled that empty hole.

What about finding a girl here at wrong planet? have you tried? lol. idk, but at least you could try, and besides maybe you could get at least experience from that... experience

Theres around 30.000 people in here. try chatting, maybe, or getting some email accounts...

It's an idea I guess the only trouble I have dealt already one girl with the same "condition" after some really disturbing episodes.... Well I dunno maybe thats just her. We'll see.

Erm, I can't imagine anyone wanting someone as angry as you are.

I understand you'd rather have the anger "fixed" by whatever you think having a girlfriend means. I just don't think that's likely to happen. I can't give you advice on how to make it happen, because I don't know anyone who'd want to deal with all that anger. People generally want to date someone happy, who feels pleasant to be around.

I am generally not. I just had a really really bad week. Unfortunely not even being nice and friendly has got me anywhere. What makes me so angry atm is that no one wants to really help, people are all too willing to give those classic lines without really giving a damn about how much it hurts. I am sorry I seem so angry right now but if you were in my shoes you would be too. I just want someone to just a little more than brush me off which is exactly what everyone is doing when telling me to "wait around, and she will come".

Pretty much all your posts sound this angry though.

sigh, nah I think this isn't going to work, I thank you for this very kind posts. Obviously everyone must love. Wait I better comform better aboslutely happy with my life. Yep thanks oooo look at me. Thank you for nazi opinons. I love how little you give. Thanks you are such a big help.

You are not even making sense...

f**k off

suit your self

LOOK I AM NOT f*****g ASKING FOR THIS f*****g TROLLING GARBAGE, I JUST WANT SOME f*****g HELP!! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !! !

Hmm, well, I don't think you can reasonably fault people for giving you advice that they believe to be good. And even the best advice doesn't necessarily work, does it? "Wait for someone to come along" doesn't guarantee that someone ever will come along, but that doesn't mean it's the wrong thing to say. I'm not saying it is the best advice for you, but go easy on the anger.

I don't, myself, know what to suggest, because after waiting an awfully long time to run into someone ideal to fall in love with, when I did I found myself unable to do anything about it by circumstance. And now I don't have even the shadow of a relationship, and doing no socialising... fah, well. I'm giving online dating a try, might as well. You could try that, although I'm not too convinced of the value of it yet.