I was 15, and it was with a guy who was a friend of mine. No romance, no 'relationship' or anything, just a friend. I wanted to because my best friend had. She did it just because too. Yeah, I know. We were BOTH young and stupid. But, you can't change the past. In a way I'm glad it was with a friend and my own choice just to do it, so there was no regret that I had given a guy my virginity because I loved him and he turned out to not be what I thought he was, which is what happened to a lot of my frineds.
We did it at my school, which was a private Christian school, in the big closet of the choir room. I know that's kinda bad, religiously if that's your religion, but my friend did it at one point that school year in the BAPTISMAL back behind the choir loft!! That's low even for a nonChristian and she was Christian! It was a Baptist church so it was this full immersion chamber. You couldn't see down in there from the sanctuary and they did it one evening that the place was open for Wednesday night prayer meeting. The meeting was over but folks hung around for the spaghetti supper after and her and Mark W went in there and did it in the baptismal.
She's going to hell. Or I guess she may already be there, since she got killed ten years ago.
PaganMom