I have done a bit of lucid dreaming. Most often it will be a dream with something bad in it. I will know it is a dream so I will rewind, start the dream over and change the ending to something positive.
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If you have one option you have an obsession.
If you have two options you have a delema.
If you have three options you have a choice.
Look for three or more options.
"I'm not too crazy about reality, but it's the only place to get a decent meal.