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Proud to be an aspie/autist?
Oh yes..... Count me in 64%  64%  [ 48 ]
Meh. Nah.... 36%  36%  [ 27 ]
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15 Jan 2010, 7:19 pm

Proud to be an aspie/autist?

I'm just wondering how many people here are actually proud to be an aspie/autist?

For me, I personally don't mind anymore but since I learnt more about myself got a real chance to know myself, I guess i'm pretty proud of what I got which seems to be a talent :)

When I was younger, I wished i'd never had it and didn't seem to realise that being an autist like me could somehow live a happier life and bring happiness to myself.... I never knew that I could live a normal life, but being out there in the world... It is just the completely different story.... yet I wished to be seen as a normal person in public but in personality wise, I rather remain the same.

Anyone else proud to be an aspie/autist?


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15 Jan 2010, 7:23 pm

I'm not proud of anything I didn't work to achieve. I have come to value my differences though.


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15 Jan 2010, 7:24 pm

You'll have to explain to me first how someone can be proud of something they had no involvement in, before I can cast my vote.



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15 Jan 2010, 7:37 pm

Lecks wrote:
You'll have to explain to me first how someone can be proud of something they had no involvement in, before I can cast my vote.


What I ment is that are you proud of being an aspie? or in other words, I could of of said, do you like being autistic/aspergers? I think that could of been a better way to put it.


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15 Jan 2010, 7:40 pm

I wouldn't say that i'm proud or glad that im autistic but I'm learning to accept who I am and try to be the best person that I can be and not try to be like somebody else.


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15 Jan 2010, 7:43 pm

Not proud. I just accept it.

Now to ask all the NTs here, are you proud to be an NT?

I think there is a difference between being proud of what you've become or who you are than being proud what you have.


EDIT: Do I like being an aspie? Hard to say. It's part of me. I wouldn't get rid of it if there were the cure. I think it's what made me be me. I like how I think and see things. I like my obsessions.



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15 Jan 2010, 7:44 pm

superboyian wrote:
Lecks wrote:
You'll have to explain to me first how someone can be proud of something they had no involvement in, before I can cast my vote.


What I ment is that are you proud of being an aspie? or in other words, I could of of said, do you like being autistic/aspergers? I think that could of been a better way to put it.

So the question you're asking is if I like having personality traits that fall under the denominator of autism/asperger's?

In that case my answer would be yes, I quite like who I am.



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15 Jan 2010, 7:56 pm

I'm proud to be on the spectrum, because I have a unique view of the world, that not many people over the age of 19 have.


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15 Jan 2010, 8:28 pm

Totally and completely. I wouldn't be who I am with out it. But... I wish I could interact a bit better with people.



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15 Jan 2010, 8:33 pm

I'd love to get more reading-people powers like NTs have, as long as it didn't screw with my intelligence.



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15 Jan 2010, 8:59 pm

I am proud of who I am, because who I am is directly related to what I do.



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15 Jan 2010, 9:01 pm

I'm fairly indifferent to it to be honest. It's as part of me as breathing and it's not like I'm conscious of that really.



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15 Jan 2010, 9:31 pm

If I had the chance to get rid of my AS, I wouldn't accept. Therefore, I suppose I'm proud.



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15 Jan 2010, 10:38 pm

Lecks wrote:
You'll have to explain to me first how someone can be proud of something they had no involvement in, before I can cast my vote.


Yeah I nver understood pride in things like Race, Sex, Sports Teams, Gang Affiliations, ect. Seams like a meaningless way to cling to a group of people. I'd rather be proud of some shared accomplishment then some meaningless random occurance or interest.



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16 Jan 2010, 8:53 am

ducky9924 wrote:
Lecks wrote:
You'll have to explain to me first how someone can be proud of something they had no involvement in, before I can cast my vote.


If that which you have no involvement in voids all pride, then no one should ever have pride in anything.

An intelligent person who devises a new theory, does so on the basis of intelligence for which they had no involvement in determining. One may wish to credit drive and willpower; unfortunately, that same person has no involvement in determining those traits either.

Accomplishments (that which we are proud of) are a collection of traits inherent to us for which we have no involvement; what matters is determining which of those traits to credit the most.



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16 Jan 2010, 12:53 pm

Pride is one of those words that seems to be a way to cause criticism anymore. What I mean is that pride is sometimes thought of as a bad thing, but yet aren't we suppose to have pride in our country and schools? Personally, I don't see anything wrong with having pride so long as it doesn't interfere with a person's relations with others (like thinking you are better than someone else).

So...with that in mind...Yes, I am proud to be AS/autistic.

I take pride in that I have been able to accomplish what I have. I feel good about these things---and what is wrong with feeling good about yourself? If this is pride, then I have pride. But I do not think I am better than others. But I am happy with being me. I can't imagine life as anyone else. I have talents, and I have special intense interests that I love as a result of autism.


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