I really enjoy the books, and in many ways I relate to (the book) Bella.
On page 10 in my copy, Bella explains about herself
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It wasn't just physically that I'd never fit in. And if I couldn't find a niche in a school with three thousand people, what are my chances here? I didn't relate well to people my age. Maybe the truth was that I didn't relate to well to people, period. Even my mother, who I was closer to than anyone else on the planet, was never in harmony with me, never on exactly the same page. Sometimes I wondered if I was seeing the same things through my eyes as the rest of the world was seeing was theirs. Maybe there was a glitch in my brain.
After Edward reveals he can read minds but not Bella's, he comments that maybe her mind is on the AM frequency and that he only hears FM. (pg 181 my copy)
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"My mind doesn't work right? I'm a freak? The words bothered me more than they should - probably because his speculation hit home. I'd always suspected as much and it embarrassed me to have it confirmed.
There are other things too. The other human females are surprised that Bella has never had a boyfriend. She dislikes being the center of attention. Physically she is very clumsy and that point is reinforced with a few of the PE scenes. She becomes obsessed with Edward to the point he is her entire world, and completely looses it when the obsession is taken away. She enjoys living with her Dad because he is not big on small talk and OK with it being quiet. She hates shopping and was forcibly dragged to her prom.
I see so much of myself in her, that I can enjoy the books.
On a side tangent, many female aspies are into classical lit, as is Bella, who has read many of the classic love stories many times. She also had no clue Jacob was in love with her, which was obvious to everyone else.