Am I the only physically attractive aspie?

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JohnG
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26 Apr 2010, 7:46 pm

To NT standards I mean. I somehow get the feeling that people think I am a handsome/physically attractive guy. My mom says so. Even my IM buddy said so when I sent a picture of my face to him. I also started working out on the first day of March. I work out with dumbbells and machines 3 days in a week and in the future I also plan to do cardio on the rest of the 4 ddays of the week so I can keep myself with that lean and toned muscular look. I say that my outlook on myself is a far cry from a couple years ago.

So, yeah, I may be somewhat-wildly physically attractive, but I still don't quite have much social skills still.

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26 Apr 2010, 7:57 pm

I think you're really hot, John. :heart:

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26 Apr 2010, 7:59 pm

Being fit and attractive is something I do for me. Such things have value even without anyone else's approval.

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26 Apr 2010, 8:09 pm

sgrannel wrote:

Being fit and attractive is something I do for me. Such things have value even without anyone else's approval.

Ditto.

But I hold out hope that it'll still get me some action once in a while. :wink:

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26 Apr 2010, 8:09 pm

Yes, only you.

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26 Apr 2010, 8:10 pm

*scratches head*

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26 Apr 2010, 8:13 pm

i dont see a question here just this guy jerking his ego off

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26 Apr 2010, 8:15 pm

Look at the "pictures of hot aspies" thread. There's lots of us. Welcome to the club.

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26 Apr 2010, 8:31 pm

Willard wrote:

But I hold out hope that it'll still get me some action once in a while. :wink:

Quote:

Salieri: Looks and talent don't always go together, Katerina
Katerina Cavalieri: Looks don't concern me, maestro. Only talent interests a woman of taste.

one of my favorite lines from Amadeus

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26 Apr 2010, 9:05 pm

deadeyexx wrote:

Look at the "pictures of hot aspies" thread. There's lots of us. Welcome to the club.

But just because we're hot doesn't mean we can get laid. Sad story.

(if you have sex standing up, did you just get laid or get stood up?)

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26 Apr 2010, 9:17 pm

ahh @_@ i wish i could meet a hot aspie guy.

apparently, i'm 'hot' (a lot of people tell me this but i'm not entirely convinced) and i get hit on a lot. what's funny/sad is i can't tell when men are making passes at me so they think i'm also interested in hooking up because i'm not putting up any defenses. then they get really sexual and that's when i finally realize what they're thinking. it's always so embarrassing.

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26 Apr 2010, 9:19 pm

It's the whole "attractive aspie" that can land girls in a world of hurt if not careful. Thing is, if a girl can make her aspie traits come off as cute, they're in for a lot of fun, provided they stay a bit cynical and guarded.
Not sure how guys can use the aspie personality to their advantage, though.

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26 Apr 2010, 9:29 pm

sinsboldly wrote:

Looks don't concern me, maestro. Only talent interests a woman of taste.

Yeaah...the witty words of a professional writer...would that that were true...

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26 Apr 2010, 9:55 pm

Willard wrote:

sinsboldly wrote:

Looks don't concern me, maestro. Only talent interests a woman of taste.

Yeaah...the witty words of a professional writer...would that that were true...

sorry your cynicism keeps you from understanding something about women.
Not girls, Willard, women.

edited because Willard is having a bad day.

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antique_toy
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26 Apr 2010, 9:59 pm

deadeyexx wrote:

Look at the "pictures of hot aspies" thread. There's lots of us. Welcome to the club.

where is this thread? i want to see the hot aspiesss

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26 Apr 2010, 10:11 pm

lol to be fair, everyones mom thinks they're "good looking". lol What a stupid idea for a thread.

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