When did you loose your virginity?

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DiabloDave363
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18 May 2010, 5:45 pm

I lost mine last month. Im 16 so thats a good age. legal and not late


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18 May 2010, 5:48 pm

Your profile says you're 17. What gives? :?



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18 May 2010, 6:13 pm

I was 16 too, though...it was phonesex*Blush* With a girl who was 17, eventually we annoyed each-other to breaking point.

But yeah, could be he's mis-entered either his date of birth or birthday(which could possibly change his age perematurely:P)



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18 May 2010, 6:17 pm

I lost it in September 2009 at age 29.


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18 May 2010, 6:18 pm

The age you lose your virginity is of zero importance. Anybody can make up whatever story they want about that. The fact that it even concerns you marks you as a beginner.

What matters is whether you're a selfish undisciplined, immature partner who pops in under sixty seconds and can't please a woman, or considerate, experienced and in control enough to make sure the lady comes first. Literally. Less than forty full minutes is an abject failure. Don't forget your head and hands.



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18 May 2010, 6:42 pm

I lost mine at 14 -- a fact I lament more often than not. I wish I had waited longer.



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18 May 2010, 6:46 pm

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18 May 2010, 7:01 pm

I'm about 80-90% certain that I could have lost it at 17.



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18 May 2010, 7:11 pm

Technically I haven't yet :lol: I do want to wait until I am of legal age...Which is 18 here in California. (17 in the wizarding world. :wink: )
I'm so glad I am female and I don't need to worry about endurance.
I just realized that what I have already done is illegal :bounce:



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18 May 2010, 7:19 pm

Willard wrote:
The age you lose your virginity is of zero importance. Anybody can make up whatever story they want about that. The fact that it even concerns you marks you as a beginner.

What matters is whether you're a selfish undisciplined, immature partner who pops in under sixty seconds and can't please a woman, or considerate, experienced and in control enough to make sure the lady comes first. Literally. Less than forty full minutes is an abject failure. Don't forget your head and hands.


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18 May 2010, 7:28 pm

book_noodles wrote:
I'm so glad I am female and I don't need to worry about endurance.


But you have to worry about Pregnancy, which is worse, and you do have to worry about endurance, because some guys just can't cope if the woman doesn't come fast enough.

I don't agree with the 40 minutes thing. It does not need to be that long. But the rest yes, you could have been with 1000 people and still be terrible in the sack.



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18 May 2010, 7:45 pm

Willard wrote:
The age you lose your virginity is of zero importance. Anybody can make up whatever story they want about that. The fact that it even concerns you marks you as a beginner.

What matters is whether you're a selfish undisciplined, immature partner who pops in under sixty seconds and can't please a woman, or considerate, experienced and in control enough to make sure the lady comes first. Literally. Less than forty full minutes is an abject failure. Don't forget your head and hands.


This is a large part of why I want to build a relationship that is based on factors other than sex, so that it's strong enough to survive my complete lack of experience until such a time that I can gain said experience. Ideally the type of woman I'd want to be in a relationship with would be a more forgiving type anyway (I'm harsh enough on myself, I don't need a woman to add on to that)...

That said, I wouldn't put an arbitrary time limit on these matters either. If you've got two partners that are both fully satisfied in 5 minutes, why take the whole 40+? In any case, it depends on the relationship at hand. The point is don't be selfish and immature about it.



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18 May 2010, 8:17 pm

Ehhh, 18


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19 May 2010, 10:26 am

Shortly after my 17th birthday.



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19 May 2010, 11:45 am

Hotel Napoleon in Paris and I was 37. Do I win the prize?

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19 May 2010, 11:57 am

hale_bopp wrote:
I don't agree with the 40 minutes thing. It does not need to be that long. But the rest yes, you could have been with 1000 people and still be terrible in the sack.
Of course you don't. You're a man!
Just kidding...
I'm with other posters here. I wish I'd waited. I was nineteen, it hurt like hell, and years later when I was having my son I tore along the place where my hymen wasn't because the man had been so rough all those years ago. Losing virginity can be a horrible and traumatic occasion. Make sure you do it with someone who really loves you, and won't mess you up for life.