Thanks for clearing up the confusion, everyone. The part of the DSM-IV that talks about lack of imaginary play was confusing me; perhaps the criteria should say "atypical play compared to peers of the same age" instead. My daughter does show creativity in her play even if it's not the typical sort of play for 5-year-old girls.
When she's racing around acting out her scenarios, I think she looks like she's having the most awesome time ever! I had a brilliant imagination when I was a child; sadly a lot of it was lost as I became an adult, but I remember how much fun it was to have an active imagination.
Bombaloo wrote:
For him a block is never a block, its a space ship or a race car (he's 4) or a snowboard or the curved blocks make the letter C, the utensils, espcially the big spoons and tongs, are all manner of different objects to him. I think the truth is that the connections our AS kids make (the french fry is Rapunzel!) are so far above the level of their peers that some people fail to see the absolute genius. Whenever I get a chance I try to write down some of the amazing things my son thinks of and says!
My daughter does that with objects, too! And it is amazing to see them thinking 'outside the square'. Good idea about keeping a record!