Broke My Cell Phone

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I'm sick of this constant rejection, and constantly getting ignored text messages. Im sick of girls thinking im weird. Girls never reply to my messages. Im sick of this. I finally stomped my phone to pieces today because it's so frustrating. I had sex with a fat girl that I wasn't attracted to, and the girls that I am attracted to never respond to me. Now I feel bad for having sex with a girl I didnt like, and the only bright side of it is that at least she was happy. I feel so screwed up now. I see other guys talking to pretty girls, but the pretty girls never like me. People tell me Im handsome, but pretty girls never like me. So I just gave up finally today. Im going back to focusing on my studies. f**k the cell phone. f**k texting.

Oh no. That's awful.

And, congrats on getting laid, I guess.

Lots of people ignore text messages. Its not necessarily anything personal; though for some of the girls it might be, but maybe not all.

whatever. people ignore messages because it's personal. and doing it with someone you arent attracted to isnt fun. I really want closeness with someone thats why I did it, but thats as far as I can get with closeness, so I had to settle for someone im not attracted to.

Texting isn't masculine anyway.

Ouch! Now that's really frustrating! This is the same problem that I'm having with many women. You meet them for the first time, then chat with them, and finally exchange numbers and facebook them. When you call them, send them voice, text and email messages, they always fail or are somewhat reluctant to return them.

???

It's not feminine either! I know lots of guys who text a LOT!

I gave up on love many years ago.

Yeah. I guess I should give up. I mean, I can always have sex with girls I'm not attracted to because I'm a good looking guy. But my awkward personality turns off the girls I am attracted to. and I don't like sex, like want closeness and to lay in a girl's arms. but that's not gonna happen I guess. and It's wrong for me to have sex with girls I'm not attracted to. so I'm not going to do that either. and I understand what that other guy said about getting their numbers, calling them or texting them (i deleted my facebook) and they fail to respond. I give up. I'm going back to focusing on my studies.

Is it just the physical contact you really want, or the spiritual closeness of the other person you are looking for? IMO if you figure out the difference you may be closer to your goal. Also, remember the unobtainable is always the most desired.

I hope you wore a condom when you had sex with the girl whom you found very unattractive.

And also, sometimes good hygiene may not be enough for a man (like myself) to attract lots of beautiful women. I think it's a combination of good hygiene, great personality, superior communication and social skills, and interests that helps attract the women to the men.

No she wasn't very unattractive she was just very overweight which caused her to be unattractive. I am in good shape, and I am good looking. But you are right, all that is not enough to attract pretty girls. I just give up then, but I'm not ever doing it with a girl I'm unattracted to again. I cant compare myself to other people, and I'm not willing to work on my social skills anymore or none of that junk. Because im 18 and im not gonna change. Ive tried changing before but it made me feel uncomfortable. and I've dated so many girls I'm not attracted to and I'm not doing that anymore, because I'm never happy and I'm always thinking about the girls I am attracted to. So I'm just gonna focus on my interests and not girls anymore because I'm not good at it.