18 Aug 2010, 8:27 pm
18 Aug 2010, 8:39 pm
That's flirting?
I get the same with men. 
18 Aug 2010, 9:46 pm
Maybe say hello or smile lightly
18 Aug 2010, 9:49 pm
wave. 
18 Aug 2010, 11:33 pm
Well, I should write "Approach" instead of "Flirt" 
19 Aug 2010, 1:57 pm
19 Aug 2010, 7:27 pm
20 Aug 2010, 12:56 am
20 Aug 2010, 8:51 pm
20 Aug 2010, 8:53 pm
PHISHA51 wrote:
When you say hi to her, smile and look excited.
Compliments. Girls like it, but don't give it to her too often.
You can also start a conversation with her. Ask her what her favorite band is, and if you have no more to stay, try to bring up another conversation.
Note: Don't always talk about what you like, your interest or hobbies, always focus on her interest, hobbies etc and be a good listener.
You don't have to take my word for this, but I hope this helps.
Compliments. Girls like it, but don't give it to her too often.
You can also start a conversation with her. Ask her what her favorite band is, and if you have no more to stay, try to bring up another conversation.
Note: Don't always talk about what you like, your interest or hobbies, always focus on her interest, hobbies etc and be a good listener.
You don't have to take my word for this, but I hope this helps.
And when you do compliment her, don't lay it on too thick. Girls will think you're trying to hard or that you have an ulterior motive. Also, "I like your shoes" can be interpreted as "wanna f**k?" I don't know why but that's what my friends have told me.
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21 Aug 2010, 1:30 am
Erisad wrote:
wave.
I must confess even though it sounds like a joke thats what I bassically do most of the time.
Most females stop watching me once I have done this, but from time to time I´m approached by a lady because they took the waving thing as a sign that I was also interested in meeting them.
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21 Aug 2010, 2:41 am
There might be some cultural differences as to how this should be approached or interpreted.
Speaking of cultural differences...
Erisad wrote:
Also, "I like your shoes" can be interpreted as "wanna f**k?" I don't know why but that's what my friends have told me.
That's not how that would be interpreted here. That would be interpreted as "I wanna f**k men, you're a chick so I'm not interested in you romantically, but those shoes are faaaaaaaaaaaabulous! So I want to know where you got them."
Something about how straight guys are not supposed to notice how nice a pair of shoes is.
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21 Aug 2010, 2:57 am
GoatOnFire wrote:
There might be some cultural differences as to how this should be approached or interpreted.
Speaking of cultural differences...
That's not how that would be interpreted here. That would be interpreted as "I wanna f**k men, you're a chick so I'm not interested in you romantically, but those shoes are faaaaaaaaaaaabulous! So I want to know where you got them."
Something about how straight guys are not supposed to notice how nice a pair of shoes is.
Speaking of cultural differences...
Erisad wrote:
Also, "I like your shoes" can be interpreted as "wanna f**k?" I don't know why but that's what my friends have told me.
That's not how that would be interpreted here. That would be interpreted as "I wanna f**k men, you're a chick so I'm not interested in you romantically, but those shoes are faaaaaaaaaaaabulous! So I want to know where you got them."
Something about how straight guys are not supposed to notice how nice a pair of shoes is.
There was a joke about that on samantha who and I loved it.
I think it was about a vintage bag.
Main character was starting to think that her best friend boyfriend was gay and this confirmed it
repeat what you just said
I said I like her bag
He didnt say he liked my bag he said he loved my vintage.
21 Aug 2010, 6:58 am
spongy wrote:
Erisad wrote:
wave.
I must confess even though it sounds like a joke thats what I bassically do most of the time.
Most females stop watching me once I have done this, but from time to time I´m approached by a lady because they took the waving thing as a sign that I was also interested in meeting them.
Yaaaaaaaaay, I'm right! *confetti*
I dunno, I remember a friend of my ex picked up a girl with the line, "Nice shoes, wanna f**k?" And it worked.
21 Aug 2010, 7:09 am
GoatOnFire wrote:
There might be some cultural differences as to how this should be approached or interpreted.
Speaking of cultural differences...
That's not how that would be interpreted here. That would be interpreted as "I wanna f**k men, you're a chick so I'm not interested in you romantically, but those shoes are faaaaaaaaaaaabulous! So I want to know where you got them."
Something about how straight guys are not supposed to notice how nice a pair of shoes is.
Speaking of cultural differences...
Erisad wrote:
Also, "I like your shoes" can be interpreted as "wanna f**k?" I don't know why but that's what my friends have told me.
That's not how that would be interpreted here. That would be interpreted as "I wanna f**k men, you're a chick so I'm not interested in you romantically, but those shoes are faaaaaaaaaaaabulous! So I want to know where you got them."
Something about how straight guys are not supposed to notice how nice a pair of shoes is.
No.. there was a post that brought up this whole shoe thing..
Erisad.. you don't read those 'women' magazines do you? the one that was posted here.. I looked at
was from one of those.. think it was a guy that posted it..
I personally think its f*cked up..
and someone is playing a very mean game of confusing people..
It was - guy likes your shoes = he is interested in you..
I am used to - guy likes your shoes = he would be interested in my roomie..
21 Aug 2010, 7:31 am
