Ever had this dream?

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I dreamt I was back in college...I went to two schools, as an undergrad and grad, and in this dream the school was a weird mishmash of the two.

I was in a bookstore, and encountered a woman. Or rather, I noticed there was a woman with me, and we both looked at books and then, we walked out of the store together as if we had always been together. And then we were holding hands! I can't remember if I took her hand, or she took mine, but what I remember is that she held on willingly. And the look in her eyes! She wanted me, loved me, was attracted to me.

After that the dream gets lost and muddled as dreams do, but that part remained clear. And when I woke up I was sad, because this has never happened in real life. I've never held someone's hand, or had a girlfriend. So this is the only love I've ever had, and it was all in my head. So I'm not sure if this was a good dream, or a nightmare...

Awh. I'm sorry .

Yes, I've had a very similar dream, but at the time I was married, and the person I was holding hands with was my husband in real life. So that was a happy dream.

I'll pray that you meet someone loving and kind with whom you can hold hands.

I have dreams like that sometimes, they are nice. I guess feeling loved in a dream is better than nothing.

I mostly dream about the time I was in eighth grade, but I did have a dream about a boy I had a crush on once. He worked in the library, and in my dream we were sitting at a table in Starbucks and having a heated discussion about some dead writer or other when another girl came along. At first she turned out to be his sister, then his girlfriend, then his sister again (it was a dream--consistency wasn't needed here), who in any case didn't like me and tried to get her brother/boyfriend to take her side. Unfortunately, he did believe her words over mine and said some hurtful things to me. That pissed me off, so although I was depressed at first because he didn't turn out to be the kind of person I thought he was, I decided he was a jerk, told him to go to hell, and walked away and never looked back. Then I woke up.

(I think I must've seen a really cliched rom-com before I went to bed that night. We just never got to the ending in my dream where he realizes the evil of his sister/girlfriend and apologizes and I accept and everyone lives happily ever after.)

Edit: The boy still works in the library, but I have never looked at him the same way since.

I've had similar dreams. Sometimes on a regular basis. Oh gawsh I can talk all night about this! Recently I had at work dreams. Some of them are about the women that I have a crush on at work. Some of them were even sextual dreams and in one of them I had sex at work! The most recent one involved one of them and we were both in this computer lab room. We were sending e-mails to each other. She didn't like the e-mails that I was sending to her. I just recently asked one of them out and got turned down. Check out my other post "Asking A Girl Out That's So Beautiful".

I've been having dreams of a redhead who I have extreme feelings for and don't know. It pains me every time because of how things are going bad in my life right now all I want is an escape.

I dream of finding a man who would love me for who I am and not manipulate me for sexual pleasures. Will this ever happen? I have no idea.

How come these dreams are so rare for me .

I dreamed up a girl many years ago and the experience was so singular that it became the center of all my fantasy and my special interest to recreate her face on paper (given my very poor drawing skill).

Yeah I've had these dreams before...usually about the perfect girls in my class...cute, funny, and a great personality.

I had one where me and this girl had to work together on a project outside of class and I used that to get her number and ask about going over to do the project. She then said how about Saturday and I agreed obviously, but she said bring a swimsuit too. When I got to her house all of her friends where there along with all the popular guys but everyone was nice to me, like the popular guys who were jerks and a few girls that were a little snobby. All the girls where like attracted to me and the guys wanted to ask me questions and stuff...so basically everyone liked me and then at the end the girl asked me to stay overnight and when I said I really had to go she pulled me by the arm and frenched me for like 10 seconds and then said "Your comin' upstairs with me."

Great dream....too bad that's when I woke up

Dreams are a manifestation of the subconscious.......in your dream you are doing what you would lIKE to do in real life. Hold on o the feeling you experienced while in the dream, that sense of togetherness with this girl, and take it with you into real life.

Next time you meet a girl that you would like to get to know, try and bring up that feeling from the data base. It doesn't work all the time, but it is about having positivity about the experience, not about the OUTCOME.

Take care, and keep up those good dreams, even if they make you feel a bit heartsick.

Mics

I have vivid and very real feeling dreams similar to that about 2-3 times a year. When I wake up I am normally upset that it was a dream because it feels so real, and good...

I don't have these dreams very often, or at least I don't remember them. They happen, but I don't read all that much into them or get all that upset by their not being real. Sometimes it's with people I'm not really attracted to, which is strange.

This sort of dream seems like a fairly common, mundane occurrence.

OP, I'm not usually one to preach Ricky's advice, but the nearest strip club or escort service would do you good. You're how old and have these girly, disney, twilight like fantasies? Grow up.

I hardly think it is immature to want a companion who loves you for who you are. I'm not much into the symbolism of dreams, but the case of mine, it wasn't the act of holding hands, but what it represented, something YOU, Foreveryyoung, don't seem to grasp. You can pay some women to do anything, but it won't mean anything, and that is the difference. The holding of hands has great meaning and importance, whereas sex can be nothingness.

I've held a girl's hand before who cared about me. The only reason you're dreaming about it is because you've never had it. If you did, you'd know that you were just...gasp...holding a girl's hand. Her hand wasn't made of gold.