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yea...i deleted this post because i'm paranoid...don't ask.

it's a tough call. there is a chance that he won't like you anymore and he'll just think you're weird, but the happening of that seems very unlikely. even if you believe he'll understand it, i'd try to avoid getting yourself into a tiny pickle and maybe wait until you are closer with him, if you're going to tell him at all. i'm happy that you're considering it, but it may make everything awkward. if the relationship is very lighthearted, i'd hold off a while. if you enclose a lot of information and have serious discussions, maybe it's all right. it depends where you are right now and where you'll possibly be in the future. but i raelly hope you figure this out!

Hi iamlucille! Wait until you're fully diagnosed. Also, don't tell him until you can trust him. But "do tell him" before anything intimate happens. That's if anything like that does happen. I don't have AS but the guy I"m in love with does. He didn't tell me until he trusted me. But he told me before anything intimate happened. I was shocked and didn't want to believe it. I researched it over and over again on the internet. He gave me space to reconsider our relationship. But I did not back away! I stayed by his side. I have OCD soo....I didn't tell him that until later on as well!

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