Are you Jealous of siblings?

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I realize that although I am grown, I still feel jealousy towards my younger sister. She has always been my parent's favorite, and she is very NT. I notice that my other siblings seem to enjoy interacting more with her, than they do with me. I feel ridiculous to still care even when we are no longer children, but it still hurts.

Does anyone else have this with siblings?

Nope. I'm my parent's favorite, so all of my siblings are jealous of me!

my siblings have it all it seems, married with familys. they own thier own homes, cars etc.
but i'm not jelouse of them. i have been in the past but im shure they have problems too
i think my life was ment to be this way for some reason so i've come to accept the outcome

my brother has kissed more boys than me

I'm not jealous of my sister now, but I used to get really jealous of her when I was in my teens and my twenties.

My older brother is and always has been my parents favorite. He's horrible.

My brother gets his ass kicked, if I got an attitude with my mom like he does she'd send me to the mental hospital (believe me...she's done it for less serious offenses).

I'm not really jealous of him though because aside from having his ass kissed he is inferior in every way shape and form to me, as are 99% of people.

I think I was and probably am. My brother was popular and got all the girls. He seemed to get away with murder. He has a load of friends that will help him when he needs it. I don't think I am jealous as much as I want to experience life from that vantage point. Most of my time has been spent working hard and figuring things out for myself without an abundance of success or fanfare. People like him remind me how much in life is socially determined and that I have to find a way around it.

I'm more jealous that my siblings got far, far more attention than I did. My father gave my siblings far more attention than he did me, and I really suspect that he also has Asperger's. My siblings got all of the attention and he would forget my name and never tell his few friends or co-workers about my existence while they knew my siblings by name.

I'm not jealous of my siblings in terms of their relationship with my parents. I'm jealous of them because they have accomplished more in life than me so far.