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A few weeks ago this bully at school beat my bro so badly he to be hospitilised.

the bully is 16 and i am 21 and i want to get revenge. i know where he lives and his postcode and telephone number but if i hunt him down and beat him i will have a criminal record.

is thier anyway possibly i could get my revenge on him in a anonymous way? I could always hack his email adress but I don't know where to find it?

i know what u are going to 2 wrong don't make a right etc but this guys needs to be taught a lesson.

Did your parents sue? To be bullied and to be put in hospital is terrible and the bully should suffer the consequences.

He was arrested but he is a minor so his criminal record will not affect him as he gets older when it comes to getting jobs.

As far as I am concerned he is walking of free and laughing in our faces becasue he ain't getting no seveare punishment.

Perhpas i could do something to his email would be a good start if only i could find it.

No don't do anything that will put you in jail or give you a record. You don't want that if you want to get a good job or go to college. I think bullies should get more punishment than just ok don't do it again. He should wear a sign that says "I like to hit people" or something that will embarrass him in front of so many people. Counselors or teachers at your school should know about him and keep an eye on him. But these days and even when I was in high school they pay no mind. Bullies they think will grow out of it. But there are bullies in college and out of college too. Good thing your brother is ok. How are your parents taking it? Did they contact your school or the bully's parents? Some bully's parents can be in denial and think that their precious son or daughter is perfect.

Actually his parents were ashamed of his actons and were very apologetic and wanted to apolise to my parents for thier sons behaviour.

Ok fair enough i know where he lives and hangs out but if i track him down and attack him i will be in hot water and his gang of friends might jump me.

would prank phone calls or hacking his email account be a better option because as long as i cover my tracks the police will not find me and even if they did i would not get a criminal record.

that said this one guy who is friends with my bro knows the attackers mother.

Please do not do anything that will make you in trouble. Your parents are dealing with your brother in a hospital and to have you do something to hurt the bully or his friends will only hurt your parents. If the bully does anything, then talk to an adult. Talk to your counselor, your principal, or have your parents talk to them. I hope the bully doesn't know where you live. You don't want the bully harassing you and your parents at home. I was bullied too but I never fought back. Bullies have low self esteem and personal issues. The victim is never at fault. I learned to ignore them because they have problems, not me. I still get bullied even though I'm way out of college. My mom just tells me to ignore people who hurt me because it's their problem not mine. You can talk to the campus police if your high school has one too. You just don't want to hurt the bully back even though I know it's tempting. TRUST me. How I wanted to hurt back the bullies but what good does it do?

I found this link...

http://kidshealth.org/teen/your_mind/pr ... lies.html#

Click on Page 3, it talks about how to deal with bullies.

I agree with Luvsterriers, p[lease don't do anything that will get you into trouble because that will only make him seem like he's somehow won another score over you. Have you had confirmation from the police over what his sentencing will be - has he been sentenced yet? I know it's hard but the best thing to do is to wait and let the justice system finish with him.

the fact that his parents are genuinely sorry for his behaviour is also a very good thing, as I'm sure they will be dishing out their own form of punishment on him too. I know you might feel like he is laughing at you but please don't get yourself into trouble too as your brother needs you at the moment and if you get into trouble with the police, it could affect his case against the bully.

He's not getting any senetence just a caution and a possible criminal record. he is also being made to apolgoise to the student infront of the principle when the my brother returns to school.

i think he does have an idea of where i live because he used to hang out by my house and spotted me and my bro at our house once but that was 7 years ago so he may not remember where i live.

If this bully is in any sports, I hope he got kicked off. I remember few Halloween ago some high school seniors threw eggs at our house! Too bad dad was too late to do anything. But yelling at stupid kids like that as a grown up wouldn't do a thing. Apparently the seniors were banned from sports. Not that it has to do with bullying. But throwing eggs at someone's house is wrong.

The bully had a hearing impairment problem and apprently struggled to get through school.

here is what happened. my brohter was walking down a school corridoor and the bully tripped up my bro infront of his friends on purpouse. my brother lashed out by walking up to him and kicking him, he also sweared at the bully. the bully lost his temper and beat my brother badly.

The worst of all this is my brother is 14 and his attacker was 2 years older.

I forgot to mention you are 21 and the bully is 16. Ok if you hurt him you are an adult and can be tried as one. The bully probably got off easier since he's still under 18.

The bully shouldn't have tripped your brother at all. That was totally immature and your brother could have seriously been hurt much worse. But your brother shouldn't have lashed out. Someone pushed me so hard that I almost hit a fence during PE class in 9th grade. I guess it took me by surprise but I didn't hurt her back. I guess I was scared of her. I was 14 and she was 15. Apparently this girl was known as a bully. But then me and her went to see the counselor to talk over things. Don't really remember what happened, but after that she stopped bullying me. I don't think she said sorry. But I think the worst thing to do is hurt the bully back. Violence is just wrong.

if i hunt him down and use physical violence what might the consequences be?

You WILL go to jail or pay some fine or go to anger management. You are 21 and an adult. The bully is still a child.

say for example if i was the same age as the bully for example would get a lighter sentence if i assulted him.

say for example if i was the same age as the bully for example would get a lighter sentence if i assulted him.

Probably so. But minors under 18 can get a very strict sentence too. It depends on the judge and your state I think. Not quite sure. I do know someone who works in the police world. I may ask her...