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CrystalBug
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08 Dec 2010, 8:25 pm

I was reading the boards and I just started to wonder about this.

I browsed across a number of boards where people seem to be having relationship problems, therefore they emphasize the negatives, but I haven't come across any opposite views. Maybe I simply need to read more forums but I rather just ask ;)



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08 Dec 2010, 8:27 pm

We're sexy. 8)



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08 Dec 2010, 8:29 pm

We put out.



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08 Dec 2010, 8:29 pm

Its not really a neurological thing. Some aspies have good traits but its not down to being aspie.



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08 Dec 2010, 8:43 pm

They will be honest with you, mean what they say, say what they mean. They will not play any of the stupid games NTs play.



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08 Dec 2010, 9:17 pm

CrystalBug wrote:
I was reading the boards and I just started to wonder about this.

I browsed across a number of boards where people seem to be having relationship problems, therefore they emphasize the negatives, but I haven't come across any opposite views. Maybe I simply need to read more forums but I rather just ask ;)


I think the most of us would not be shallow or gold diggers.



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08 Dec 2010, 9:23 pm

As long as I don't have to buy her a Juicy Couture handbag or put up with banter about the Kardashian tramps, I'll date an aspergirl.



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08 Dec 2010, 9:30 pm

nthach wrote:
As long as I don't have to buy her a Juicy Couture handbag or put up with banter about the Kardashian tramps, I'll date an aspergirl.


Who ever knew polyester jumpsuits would be so fashionable outside of the 70 year old mobster crowd.



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08 Dec 2010, 9:39 pm

Chronos wrote:
nthach wrote:
As long as I don't have to buy her a Juicy Couture handbag or put up with banter about the Kardashian tramps, I'll date an aspergirl.


Who ever knew polyester jumpsuits would be so fashionable outside of the 70 year old mobster crowd.

they're velour. And another thing I CANNOT stand are girls my age plastering themselves with Victoria's Secret PINK. The typical uniform if you're not a hipster at my school is a matching VS PINK outfit, a pair of Uggs - with your sweatpants tucked in and a Juicy Couture handbag to finish off the tramp look. And a tramp stamp to garnish if off. Yuck.



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08 Dec 2010, 10:22 pm

mv wrote:
We put out.


ahahahahahahahahahahhahaa

ohh thank you that was the funniest thing I've read all week

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08 Dec 2010, 10:23 pm

KenM wrote:
They will be honest with you, mean what they say, say what they mean. They will not play any of the stupid games NTs play.


that sucks



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08 Dec 2010, 10:23 pm

Since people with AS have varying levels of functioning, the advantages will be determined on a case-by-case basis.


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08 Dec 2010, 10:27 pm

Kilroy wrote:
KenM wrote:
They will be honest with you, mean what they say, say what they mean. They will not play any of the stupid games NTs play.


that sucks


Haha, do you enjoy girls games? :lol:



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08 Dec 2010, 10:32 pm

yeah because in my experience people with AS are such bland people
plus I deal with NTs every day, I live and work alongside them, I am used to them



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08 Dec 2010, 10:33 pm

I never saw the big deal with how it was bad - what happened to loving the thrill of the chase?



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08 Dec 2010, 10:39 pm

the chase is the worst part
you never quite know if she likes you or not, and then there could be situational stuff, etc etc
and even if she likes you, its probably not gonna work out
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