I have a good deal of anxiety troubles that I've yet to really address with my psychiatrist, but I can relate to this thread a lot. I just thought I developed unfavorable habits from my mother.
If someone is late or no-show, I feel they've either been in a terrible accident or they hate me. If they've been in an accident it's my fault because they were on their way to see me. What if they hate me? Well I'm simply no good to the world and I'm gonna go hide under a blanket now.
I don't listen to my iPod in public for fear of not hearing screams or alarms.
I guess what I'm saying is I understand what you're feeling.
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Acceptance, patience, love, and understanding. Acceptance, patience, love, and understanding. Acceptance, patience--
$%#@, get out of my face!