wefunction wrote:
I'm unable to stop having crushes. I don't think it's a problem. Acting on a crush takes quite a bit of intentional effort. If you neglect to make that effort, there is little risk.
But look at things logically:
Is a fling with her worth losing your entire relationship?
If it is, break up with your girlfriend now and then pursue whomever caught your attention. If it is not, keep your crush in your spank bank until you're "over her".
Agreed.
I often still have crushes when I'm in relationships, but I've never considered acting on one (without ending my relationship first).
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After a time, you may find that having is not so pleasing a thing, after all, as wanting. It is not logical, but it is often true.
--Spock