Five years ago I met this woman who made it her personal charity mission to be my friend. She was the mother of one of the children in my daughter's kindergarten class. This woman is what I think of as a typical NT mom. Her and her husband own a nice home, they have 2.5 kids, a husband who works around the clock and never seems to say a word, and she does multilevel marketing, and she sits on the board of the PTA, and, even worse, she's a born again Christian. Her children are horrible, her children have strange nasty behaviors that they enact in a sly passive aggressive manner toward other children. To sum it up this woman is a typical NT mom in every way possible.
She tried to be my friend. Her efforts at friendship with me were solely comprised of her attempts to educate me as to how to shop in bulk at the grocery store, her efforts to educate me about the efficacy of the incredible skin care products she sold through MLM, and also to force my children to play with her kids so that my children could receive the benefits of interacting with a church going family.
I hate her!! !! We have NOTHING in common whatsoever. I always did my best to avoid her but she was very persistant.
Mercifully she moved to another province a couple of years ago. Her efforts to be my friend did not end there, however. For the past two years I have received about two phone calls a year from this woman. She calls to find out what I "am up to" and "what's new" in my life. I always try to get off the phone as quickly as possible.
This week she called me. She asked, "Do you still have those religious videos I gave you?"
I said, "Yeeeeessss..." I could barely remember but it is true, she did lend me three religous videos about five years ago. The videos are in my closet somewhere. I never watched them. Gawwwwd. Who knew this would come back to haunt me? And now I have to return the videos so I have no way of escaping the horrific scenario that she presented with her next words.
She said, "Good because I'm coming into town this weekend and I want to visit with you when I pick up my videos."
NOOOOOOOOO!! !! !! !
If anyone has any advice as to how I can deal with this woman so that I do not have to spend several hours with her, please let me know.