I was denied permission to get assessed for ADHD.. twice! and eventually grew depressive (denial of a death too) and went in for help for depression.
I was told I most likely had ADHD and suffered from depression. 4 years later of off and on therapy that was a complete fail due to there lack of mental health knowledge, (was fed up when I received a sheet talking about anxiety and how to deal with tunnel vision and suicide... this clearly wasn't going anywhere) So i requested to see someone with a Phd. and within 30 minutes my psychiatrist had me set up to get assessed for PDD. Now I'm diagnosed, Asperger's disorder. And I feel complete. (except my family is very indifferent to my diagnosis, which should change)
I've had an awful past 6 years. (public school was a write off hah)
(Living with and dealing with depression is a hard thing to do growing up alone)
I needed to vent a bit, and I feel getting diagnosed ASAP is crucial. Just because I struggled in the shadows for so long, and I know how it feels to be mild and to be misunderstood so severely.