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Steve_Cory
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24 Jul 2006, 2:58 am

The following people owe me explanations as for why they made absolutely no reply to my messeges, regardless of having AMPLE time to reply.


SUBJECT:.................................USERNAME:

Question..................................Barracuda Wed Jul 19, 2006 2:46 pm
Hello, hale...............................hale_bopp Wed Jul 19, 2006 9:01 am
Detective.................................starling Wed Jul 19, 2006 8:40 am (CLEARED)
Advice..................................... alex Tue Jul 18, 2006 2:12 am
My ideas.................................. MindOfOrderedChaos Tue Jul 18, 2006 2:05 am


I'm not necessarily mad. But if you can't reply to messeges in private, perhaps you would like to come forward in pubic to give an explanation. Put a few points in for your reputations, 'eh?



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24 Jul 2006, 3:13 am

Ummm piece of advice, your not going to ruin Alex's rep, more likely he will delete this and ban you.


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24 Jul 2006, 3:15 am

Right, buddy. Because goodness knows how my messege has "ruin Alex's rep" written all over it.



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24 Jul 2006, 3:25 am

I haven't been responding because I saw you opened another topic and I wanted to respond there, but I haven't up till now.



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24 Jul 2006, 3:26 am

Starling, you are cleared to go. Thank you.

I just really wanted to hear some of your ideas on the detective you made. :)



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24 Jul 2006, 3:44 am

Sometimes people don't get on often, or don't notice that they have a PM(s). I remember how much of an idiot I felt like when I realized on one board I was at I had several PMs from over the past month I hadn't noticed as the forums didn't alert me much. :P Or something that also seems to commonly happen with me is that I read a PM, and plan to reply... but never get around to it and forget about it.



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24 Jul 2006, 4:01 am

Yeah, I'm in the clear!


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24 Jul 2006, 4:44 am

Steve_Cory wrote:
I'm not necessarily mad.


Dude, you may not be mad, but this post reeks of bitterness. If you were trying to befriend these people, this is definitely not the way to go about it, but if you want to start some arguments then you´re on the right track. Some people don´t answer PM´s, and thats all there is to it. No one should HAVE to give an explanation to anyone if they don´t want to talk.


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24 Jul 2006, 6:04 am

Why do people owe you explanations for their actions? :?

If others on this board are of the same mindset as you...I hope to God that no-one sends me a PM. Personally I would feel very uncomfortable if someone demanded answers and implied I had "wronged" them.


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24 Jul 2006, 7:22 am

^^ Yeah, that! ^^



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24 Jul 2006, 7:45 am

'cleared to go'? wow, a real life investigation!



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24 Jul 2006, 8:12 am

I know, people owe you explanations, but wouldn't it be better if you expressed these feelings by sending a PM to them again?

I thought you knew otherwise!


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24 Jul 2006, 8:55 am

Uhhhhh,

Who died and made you boss?


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24 Jul 2006, 11:29 am

ljbouchard wrote:
Uhhhhh,

Who died and made you boss?



dude..thats batman.
he is the boss.......he calls underlings buddy, and gives permission to go, like a real superhero..sheez he IS the boss.
when i grow up i want to be like him



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24 Jul 2006, 11:35 am

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Sometimes people don't get on often, or don't notice that they have a PM(s). I remember how much of an idiot I felt like when I realized on one board I was at I had several PMs from over the past month I hadn't noticed as the forums didn't alert me much. Or something that also seems to commonly happen with me is that I read a PM, and plan to reply... but never get around to it and forget about it.


And that's perfectly fine. But I don't believe that can always be the case. Sometimes, yes. But not all the time.

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Dude, you may not be mad, but this post reeks of bitterness. If you were trying to befriend these people, this is definitely not the way to go about it, but if you want to start some arguments then you´re on the right track. Some people don´t answer PM´s, and thats all there is to it. No one should HAVE to give an explanation to anyone if they don´t want to talk.


Shouldn't they have the common courtesy to at least give a short little answer like: "I don't talk in PM's, we can talk on the boards." Instead of making the person feel like an unimportant piece of crap?

Is that so hard? Would that take more than five seconds of their "schedule-packed lives"?

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I know, people owe you explanations, but wouldn't it be better if you expressed these feelings by sending a PM to them again?

I thought you knew otherwise!


And not get an answer again?



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24 Jul 2006, 11:52 am

ljbouchard wrote:
Uhhhhh,

Who died and made you boss?


Hey!! ! Let the guy be! I like it when aspies get mad and demand their right to attention, we are usually too peaceful.


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