im an aspie girl and gets lots of male attention??

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ProfessaM
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13 Apr 2011, 7:20 am

I'm 15 and was diagnosed at 9. However I have a very long history of bullying, social alienation and isolation. Boys and girls had different ways of doing it. I was considered very attractive and intelligent but socially awkward and eccentric by my neurotypical peers. I now have a gorgeous boyfriend and two friends (NT) who are accepting and friendly. My boyfriend helped me with a a guy who was bullying me from year 7 right up until now (year 10) Now he doesnt dare. :D my boyfriend has mild autism and is affected in the areas of spelling, reading, wrighting and maths. all my strengths. he is a lot like a neurotypical in his ability to socialise well and get on will neurotypical people. something i lack a lot. He once said to me that in school most boys stare at me and then he sticks the rude finger up at them to show them "she is mine" and he said many NT girls dislike me cos of all the attention i get from boys and my beauty. not that i mean to sound cocky or anything but this is just what he said



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13 Apr 2011, 10:53 am

There's something funny about this user's posts. Someone should report it.



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13 Apr 2011, 4:46 pm

I'm sure this member was 12 earlier this year... edit my mistake I am incorrect.



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13 Apr 2011, 5:12 pm

ProfessaM wrote:
I'm pretty, smart and popular with the boys but I suck at socializing. And btw, I have a hot boyfriend.

That's what the post seemed to read to me as. I don't see why you thought you needed to create a thread about this.



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13 Apr 2011, 6:32 pm

That must be so awful, being so attractive and getting lots of attention. I'm so sorry to hear about this, I can't imagine how horribly difficult it must be. If you want to be unattractive instead, I'd be happy to trade.


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14 Apr 2011, 3:00 pm

I'm sorry about the things that you have to endure from day to day. I wouldn't know what do do, if I got all that male attention.


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15 Apr 2011, 5:30 am

Not sure if people here are serious...if she's nice looking, shouldn't we celebrate that anyone can look beautiful and have social problems?

I do agree that this thread shouldn't of been made without people qeustioning why they would kind of troll other people that they are unattractive and the like but...it depends if this is the OP stating what we all aren't or the OP is just trolling.


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15 Apr 2011, 4:59 pm

This poster is a liar and has ulterior motives. |DESTROY!! !



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15 Apr 2011, 7:25 pm

Starlight-Supernova wrote:
Not sure if people here are serious...if she's nice looking, shouldn't we celebrate that anyone can look beautiful and have social problems?

I do agree that this thread shouldn't of been made without people qeustioning why they would kind of troll other people that they are unattractive and the like but...it depends if this is the OP stating what we all aren't or the OP is just trolling.

Even if this isn't a troll post, it's still essentially bragging and, quite frankly, a very bad lie.



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16 Apr 2011, 9:30 am

Jonsi wrote:
Even if this isn't a troll post, it's still essentially bragging and, quite frankly, a very bad lie.


I see both points put across...but we can only know if she isn't genuine if she does it again in another thread (trolls strike more then once usually).

Yeah, I'm pretty unbiased when it comes to analysing situations. :)


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16 Apr 2011, 11:55 am

sounds like you got a good way to deal with your problems.



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16 Apr 2011, 2:01 pm

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Hello I am a 14 year old girl who lives in Melbourne.


This comes up in "her" posts CONSTANTLY.

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I am a teen girl with AS. I just wonder why boys make such a fuss when the "Lover of the Day" result ends up being me on Facebook. The result was me 3 times. And two out of three times another boy commented "ahahahahahahaha" The first time it was just "ahahahahahaa lol" on one boy's result a comment received. Then the second time it went like this:

First comment: Ahahahahahahahaha

Second comment (this was from the boy whose result I was) : What the hell it just does it by itself

Third comment (from the boy who made the first comment): okkaay

Fourth commen (form another boy): nooooooooo luke. now it out in the open. Lmao

What on earth is all of this. No one makes such a fuss if any other girl is the result so why me?


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Oh yes! I have had this male all the way from overseas add me on facebook and msn a few months ago! He actually admitted he was attracted to me and wants to have some "fun" on line! I sometimes show myself on webcam to him and he to me. He lives all the way in Pakistan. I like to think of it as casual on line friendship but one person (him) attracted and reguarly flirting and making jokes. No one knows about him, however. He describes me as "sexy, attractive, charming and astonishing"


These are just some of "her" posts. I suspect that "she" is in fact an (aspergic) male, somewhere between mid-twenties and mid-forties with, as I've said before, ulterior motives. If I'm wrong, I am most sincerely sorry.



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16 Apr 2011, 2:01 pm

(double post, sorry)



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16 Apr 2011, 6:13 pm

I have one, very important question.
Is "trololololololololol" one word?



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16 Apr 2011, 7:51 pm

Yes, it is.



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16 Apr 2011, 8:04 pm

ProfessaM wrote:
spelling, reading, wrighting and maths. all my strengths


Bwa ha ha ha ha!

:lmao:

If this was a genuine mistake and you are genuinely good at wrighting (and boasting about how good you are at spelling it), then I do apologise for thinking you were doing this for some other reason. :wink: