Ive always wanted to date a girl and a guy at the same time

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Ok so if were all bisexual and we are all dating each other in a group relationship I think that would just be awesome an fun to do its something that I would love to do some day

me too! the sex would be out of this world.

I know it would be so awesome! I know a girl who is dating a guy and a girl man she lucky

Personally, I think that I would be too overwhelmed by being with more than one person.

I have also wanted this. I know three people who are in a long-term three-way relationship. Two girls and one male. My ex wanted it as well (he was male). Unfortunately, the current male I'm with is not interested in something like that.

Sounds better on paper than I think it would be in real life. Conflicting demands, conflicting emotions, limits on time ... major jealousy issues. Sometimes you just have to pick a side and go with it. Intriguing idea nonetheless.

Guys do this all the time. It's called being on the DL.

Guess you're polyamorous, OP? I have been since I was 18 and it puts a strain on relationshps, realistically speaking, but I've always pushed for it because of how incredibly important sharing love is for me. I find overcommitiment to a single person to be potentially destructive. I think monogamy might be perfectly OK for many/most people, I would just like for polyamorists to be as accepted instead of stigmatised. Where are you from? Perhaps there is a polyamory group if you're in a fairly metropolitan area.

Oh, and check out the movie Shortbus, it does explore this concept fairly well.

Not me! I think it's cheating. (just my opinion)

Maybe you want to date a bi-gendered person instead of dating two different people?

I did this back in high school. It was alright. Being poly is awesome.

I'm quite interested to try this. The ideal relationship would be an open one, even if I never actually take advantage of it. It's just nice psychologically, having the door open in my mind.

I'm sure the sex would be memorable but I find relationships confusing enough with only one other person in them. Even friends with benefits can turn into confusing relationships with more drawbacks than anything else.

Also, and I'm sorry to be a crashing bore here, but there is a limit to how open I want to be to sexually transmitted infections. It's difficult enough to find one person who aspires to be monogamous who you can trust with your health without trusting many others who don't. Maybe I'm getting old but I'm just not that interested any more. There are things I would rather be doing. Like reading a book, watching a movie, fixing a car, going rock climbing.

Maybe I've just not found the right one sex cult for me yet? hehe.

B.

So many gross misconceptions. If it's not for you it's not for you, but there's no reason to make baseless assumptions about the lives of others. There are lots of people in happy, healthy polyamorous relationships. Also most poly relationships aren't strictly sexual in nature, they're like any other relationship. It's not orgies and swingers parties, that's kind of a different scene entirely.

Sounds good, as long as I don't have to live with them. Sharing my space and stuff with one person would be hard enough let alone two.