I get it too, but only in the form of fairly brief paralysis now, I've stopped having the hallucinations. I find that staying calm really helps and maybe that's one reason I don't get hallucinations anymore. Possibly the terror of panicking and wondering if you're going to hallucinate makes it worse by messing up your brain chemistry even more. Focusing on trying to move one part of the body slowly and calmly creates less stress than trying to force my whole body to wake up because it doesn't draw attention to the predicament of total paralysis and make instinctive alarm bells go off in my head. I try not to let myself fall asleep on my back, which is the strongest trigger I've identified, as it is for many people.
Mummy_of_Peanut wrote:
I used to get these very regularly, when I lived at my parents' house. It's really frightening and quite often I'd be having a really bad dream, yet I was awake and unable to move or speak. When I got married, they more or less stopped and I only had a very occasional one. Each time it happened, I was able to correlate it with having eaten cheese fairly late in the evening. The reason it happened so regularly before I got married was that my parents often made cheese on toast as a late night snack and I hadn't been able to make the connection. The last time it happened was a few years ago. We went on holiday to Austria and arrived after the evening meal had finished. A small buffet was set up in our room, consisting of bread and various cheeses. I thought I'd be OK so ate it.
Maybe that's where the notion that cheese at night causes nightmares comes from. The word 'nightmare' actually used to refer to sleep paralysis, not bad dreams, but somewhere in history sleep paralysis seems seems to have stopped being one of those things most people know about, probably because people started getting too embarrassed to talk about it. Any studies into cheese and bad dreams would have come out negative if it can trigger sleep paralysis but not bad dreams, as only a small percentage of the population gets sleep paralysis more than a few times in their life.