My Relationship Issues

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Finding out what true love was is very hard for me to do. Especially when I have autism. I am a type of person who has no interest in sex or anything too close in relationships. Others talking about romance and feelings are too much for me to handle whenever they're going too far. I have been through so many relationships in games only to find alot of people have hurt, rushed and made me feel uncomfortable. I also do not want to be at the point of breaking down again. I know I am not trying to let my feelings get in the way cause I am trying to take things slow as well. All I want is somebody I to work with.

I find your avatar quite sexually suggestive.

^ Why say that?

Why?

It is because I do not know what to do.

zen_mistress was talking to Molecular_Biologist, i think. his comment was random, unhelpful, and dismissive.


AutismOtakuGirl, have you considered being friends with men first, then slowly moving to a more intimate relationship? how are you currently meeting partners?

Yes. I didnt see why he put such a suggestive comment in when someone comes in asking for advice.


Anyway, OP, a lot of us have relationship problems here. You are not alone.

Thank you. And I have been trying that by the way. My feelings confuse me with people though. The reason I was finding a lover in the first place is cause I wanna know what it's like. I am trying to do what is best for me. But I don't know if I should stay a virgin or go out with someone.

I don't know how old you are, but staying a virgin sounds right considering where you sound to be coming from. It takes a lot of trust and that takes a lot of time.

Take your time in finding the right person. Someone who loves you will not go too fast. Love is understanding and patient.

These things can't be rushed, it doesn't mean you won't ever get to see what it's like. You don't want to know what it is like when it goes all wrong! So stay slow, choose wisely. No matter what belief you attest to, the body is the temple of the soul, and you don't want to allow someone in that soul-space too quickly or lightly. Lotsa pain can result.

Hope all the best for you!

Woah, woah, woah, stop right there! I hope you're not taking those as serious, realistic experiences!

No, not exactly.

Wait. Games? Like, video games?! Like Persona 3 or the Tokimeki Memorial series?