My kids go to kindergarten and 2nd grade mainstream classes. They are both very high functioning, diagnosed with PDD-NOS. Our short term goals have been focused on keeping them in mainstream classes and maximizing the benefits they can receive from autism specific programs available to us. We are very fortunate to live in a school district that has a small crew of specialists to work with each child's needs. As a stay at home dad, I try my best to keep them busy doing things they enjoy to relieve the need to stim and harden them to the hit or miss aspects of life to come.
My 5 year old daughter is reading a little, slightly more than average, but has a few attention deficit challenges which will become more of a problem as she reaches the more rigidly structured years of her education. She also gets 1 hour/ week of one on one instruction, plus 2 hours/week of group social training courses with 7 other 'special needs' kids, 3 are PDD also. She is easily distracted, never bored, much more extroverted than I or her mother have ever been and she 'owns' the school. It's HER school.
My 7 year old son has a few more issues to work through. He is actually reading at high school level, both recognition and retention. They had to give up on finishing his reading eval last time because he is so far off their scale. His math skills are well above par, but he has improved so much this summer, that I have no idea where he compares to his peers, but it's pretty good. His problems are centered around tactile and aural sensitivities, mostly and his new teacher is very old school. Her response to all our concerns is the same "I've been teaching for 29 years ..." But she has never encountered a student like my son, I'm sure. He also has 3 hours/week of social, self esteem, and 'study habits' special attention in a group setting with 2 other PDD kids plus 7 others. He is genius in many ways, timid, quiet, easily bored and extremely distractible, exactly like me.
_________________
It's just music for me. The other stims don't work.