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NorwichAspie
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20 Jun 2011, 6:54 pm

Hi everyone on wrongplanet.

I joined up yesterday to wrongplanet and i have a girlfriend at last. Been going out together for just over a week now and it seems to be working out well. It looks like i have finally been given the chance of happiness in life and to overcome the way that Aspergers Syndrome prevented me from doing so.



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20 Jun 2011, 6:59 pm

Congratulations! I know how you feel. Because after several decades of being very, very lonely I have also found someone, and like you, I never thought I would. I hope things stay this way.



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20 Jun 2011, 7:38 pm

Congrats on getting a girlfriend and Welcome to Wrong Planet!


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20 Jun 2011, 8:17 pm

Congratulations to both of you! :)
I know how loneliness feels, myself. I am very thankful to have seemingly found a woman who will stay with me at last! :D


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20 Jun 2011, 8:35 pm

Congratulations and best wishes to you both! :)

I hope I can say the same someday.



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20 Jun 2011, 9:46 pm

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Congratulations! :)


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20 Jun 2011, 10:56 pm

That's awesome!

It always gives people hope to hear about these things, and welcome to WP :)



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20 Jun 2011, 11:36 pm

Nice one! Are you from Norwich then? Beautiful city btw


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21 Jun 2011, 2:34 am

Congratulations! I'm joining you btw. It seems I've finally found someone who really loves me, not only likes, with all of her heart. I was also so unhappy thinking I'll never find a girlfriend, and this one seems soo sweet. :D

I wish all of you the best, and for those still searching, I wish you luck, courage and strength on your quest.


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21 Jun 2011, 2:42 am

This only proves that you should never say never. Congrats and welcome!



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21 Jun 2011, 7:12 am

A big thank you to all your messages of support here on wrongplanet.

I really do hope it works out as well as i will be heartbroken if it goes wrong as i really love this girl. I am 34 years of age and have had to endure a lifetime of being single. This used to make me feel suicidal as a result and i also have done quite a bit of self-harm in my time. I no longer feel depressed for the first time during my adult life and i never want to go back to feeling like that. I am going to do everything within my power to hold on to this girl. I dont believe in adultery (cheating) as in my opinion it is the worst crime possible.

Once again thank you.



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21 Jun 2011, 8:50 am

way to go! good luck! :D


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