Korrik's classics presents: Should I ask if she likes me?

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Hey all, I've been reading these forums for a while but don't often post on the forums.
So there is this girl I know/like but I'm not sure if she likes me to...
there are a couple off things you should know:
- I'm 14 years old.
- I live in a West European country.

So here are the things that cause me to think she might like me:
- Every time we have to work together there's atleast 1 girl who says something like: "Oooooh what a nice couple." She usually blushes if someone says that.
- There is this evil website she "used" on me: http://www.willthisbetheyear.com/
here's how it works: So you send a link to a certain person and the person can ask questions about his future to a "machine". But the truth is, the person who gave you the link is reading and answering your questions. So the smart guy that I am, I tried to see if there's something fishy about the website she gave me. So I started asking some questions that no machine could answer starting whit: Does *name of the girl* like me? It (she) answered: "Maybe, you should ask her." She said this to act like a machine or to give me a hint? I don't know...
- She puts an x behind her sentences quite alot ( girls do that quite often nowdays... so gues it doesn't mean anything) E.G.:"Thanks xx"

Reasons that cause me to think she dispises me:
- Her and a her (female) best friend couldn't stop giggling when she was testing her webcam. ( I had to check if I could see em.)
- When I'm close to her she often says ( often in class, first hour orso): "Hello *my name*, evrything alright?" But the way she says it... I don't know how to describe it. Like when a guy is teasing a girl he knows very well and says: "Hi *random name*" and prepares himself to get poked or something.
- Girls often ask her "how's *name off a some boy I don't know*" and she usually answer something like: "Aaaa, stop it". The thing is, it's been like 3 different boys now in 2 years.

So guys and girls, any thoughts ?? Does anyone else here have a problem whit spotting the difference between dispisement and love? Sorry for my bad english Only reason I can speak english is because I play an awfull lot of WoW.

I hope you can enjoy your interaction without becoming too attached. Your description doesn't strike me as the behavior of someone who hates you, and she could simultaneously like you and toy with you unscrupulously. I wouldn't tolerate the behavior in an adult, but she's a kid. I'd say Don't Ask, figure it out for yourself. That generally gets you better information about people, anyway. Ask about the meaning of a particular action in the moment, but avoid generalizations.